Anyone ever say anything hurtful to you/about you (re: SA)?

[new_mom_09]

A couple of times a co-worker made comments about how I never get phone calls or emails, and he said it pretty condescendingly. I felt like going to the BR and crying because it hurts not having friends and not having ever had real friends (besides boyfriends) the past 8 years!
I was so shocked both times because I've never been mean to this person, how can people be so hurtful to someone who is so nice? I just blew off the comment at work but it affected me afterwards. I didn't even want to tell my husband because I hate pointing out my weakness. What should I do when I go back to work on Monday?
More info about work: I hardly talk to anyone! When EVERYONE around me was chatting, I just turned my back and kept doing my work. My situation is getting worse...

 

[new_mom_09]

by the way, I only hang out with my husband... sometimes I feel my SA creep up when I am hanging out with him

 

[kathyprice19]

yep, ive had people def. say lots of mean things. ive gotten the line "you just think you're better than everyone else" which obviously hurts. as a kid i got bullied alot, because i never talked to anyone. its not that i didnt want to, because actually there's nothing i wanted more, but i just couldnt.
just recently i had a prof tell me that i needed to have more initiative, which obviously i would have agreed with had i not had SA. but with SA having more initiative than im already showing isnt possible, because im already trying so hard just to get up each morning and go to class. it hurt, but the worst part is, he didnt even know that what he had said hurt me. he probably thought that he was encouraging me. that's what sucks about SA.

 

[TheLoneWolf]

Yeah Im pretty sure everyone on here has. A couple years of my life i was bullied lightly which sucked, im usually sarcastic and aloof to people i meet so i dont get hurt, but of course, its a double edged sword, with me not getting to know ppl either

 

[KAnneW]

yes...my mom,dad,and sister...