miguy
Member
hi,
here is my situation...
i know i need help and just being diagnosed at 29, i just can't see the future of anykind where i will be naturally social or "re-programed" in some way to be social and enjoy socializing, interacting and wanting to be around others....where does that need, want or desire come from? anyone going thru this...? i also wonder what kind of therapy and the step of it are involved? i mean i know it's talk therapy with cognitive-behavioral modification but at this point i have no idea where the drive to socialize is going to come from, is there a switch that will be turned on by the therapist or what???
here is bothering me and i want to correct/change/understand, but don't know how or if it's possible...anyone know?:
-correct/change or negative behavior or way of thinking i grew up with
-creat a spark of wanting and needing to be around others or with looking forward to social stuff
-think, reason, remember, learn and analyze stuff in the world and my head
-realize and understand my strenghts/weaknesses and figure out joys and passions in life, discover myself and how i fit into the world, find or understand meaning
-how to be interested in anything and everything, motivation, goals, ambition, tasks priorities, be responsiable, how to achieve and be successful...etc
thanks to all...
here is my situation...
i know i need help and just being diagnosed at 29, i just can't see the future of anykind where i will be naturally social or "re-programed" in some way to be social and enjoy socializing, interacting and wanting to be around others....where does that need, want or desire come from? anyone going thru this...? i also wonder what kind of therapy and the step of it are involved? i mean i know it's talk therapy with cognitive-behavioral modification but at this point i have no idea where the drive to socialize is going to come from, is there a switch that will be turned on by the therapist or what???
here is bothering me and i want to correct/change/understand, but don't know how or if it's possible...anyone know?:
-correct/change or negative behavior or way of thinking i grew up with
-creat a spark of wanting and needing to be around others or with looking forward to social stuff
-think, reason, remember, learn and analyze stuff in the world and my head
-realize and understand my strenghts/weaknesses and figure out joys and passions in life, discover myself and how i fit into the world, find or understand meaning
-how to be interested in anything and everything, motivation, goals, ambition, tasks priorities, be responsiable, how to achieve and be successful...etc
thanks to all...