I will swear by this book, the author is unknown to me, but if you are that interested, I will get you more info on it. Its called "Lifeskills for adult children" It touches mostly on adults that suffered abuse as children from alcohalic parents. But the issues that arise, and the things it goes over, are so helpful. It has short chapters, and is not a book you sit down and read the whole thing. It is more a referance, something to breeze through, and go back when you need touch-up. It is superb and was recommended by my therapist. I would give every single person a copy, because it touches on real life. It is awesome, simply put.
-Jessie