20 yo without a single Kiss

JonnyD

JonnyD

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I've read a lot around here,about people who is facing theur fear and it's making me feel much better. so let there's is my... story:

I'm a 20 years old guy who never even kissed a girl :oops: ... i feel so strange about it because, well i want to do it... every time i see some couple kissing i feel so jealous (in the good way) and i really wish to know how it feels, not just the kissing thing , but how is to kiss a special girl.

I know that someone in my age is spected to have done it before and i don't want to pick a girl from thin air , based on how she looks or how "easy" she is, just for the sake of it. I would like this to be with a nice girl, which i care about.
But at the same time, i don't want to give a special girl, a terrible experience that makes her run away, and i'm not going to tell her and blow up all the romantic moment.

-I would like to know, has anybody here been throught it... never kissed even being in adulthood?

-How ridicle it sounds? (you can be honest - i already think it the most ridicle thing in the whole world)

you know, i think i might star that movie instead of drew berrymore "Never been kissed " - well i'm not a girl, and i'm not even close to drew berrymore, and i'm not a reporter... i think i'm better with "the 40 years old virgin"
 
Dodger

Dodger

Well-known member
No need to worry, you will find someone when the time is right. I got my first kiss at 19 it was kind of random how it happened.
 
Goku_ODPhi_1987

Goku_ODPhi_1987

Member
JonnyD said:
I've read a lot around here,about people who is facing theur fear and it's making me feel much better. so let there's is my... story:

I'm a 20 years old guy who never even kissed a girl :oops: ... i feel so strange about it because, well i want to do it... every time i see some couple kissing i feel so jealous (in the good way) and i really wish to know how it feels, not just the kissing thing , but how is to kiss a special girl.

I know that someone in my age is spected to have done it before and i don't want to pick a girl from thin air , based on how she looks or how "easy" she is, just for the sake of it. I would like this to be with a nice girl, which i care about.
But at the same time, i don't want to give a special girl, a terrible experience that makes her run away, and i'm not going to tell her and blow up all the romantic moment.

-I would like to know, has anybody here been throught it... never kissed even being in adulthood?

-How ridicle it sounds? (you can be honest - i already think it the most ridicle thing in the whole world)

you know, i think i might star that movie instead of drew berrymore "Never been kissed " - well i'm not a girl, and i'm not even close to drew berrymore, and i'm not a reporter... i think i'm better with "the 40 years old virgin"
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Almost 25 and still no kiss either, if I think about it it just drives me insane so I try not to think about it lol...

I totally concur with you in that we shouldn't just give it up to anyone, my innocence means alot to me and whoever that girl's gonna be has to be one that I'm am totally comfortable with and accepts me for who I am and my imperfections, it really is a PRIVILEGE to share something intimate with me because of my innocence, and that's not me being cocky its just confidence in who I am... :)

I just can't stand seeing others kissing or any other types of PDA (Public Displays of Affection) it just makes me so jealous because I know in my heart I SHOULD be in a relationship with me being the kind of guy that girls SHOULD be interested in, but alas life isn't so cut and dry and by the book... :cry:
 
recluse

recluse

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26 when i first kissed(fully on the lips) last year...It's overrated in my opinion, hugging i much more satisfying.
 
Eledee

Eledee

Active member
kissing means nothing unless you actually care about the person.

don't get caught up worrying about your age, just concentrate on enjoying life, being comfortable in yourself, and when that special person comes along, don't fret about how bad/good the kiss is going to be.

people can't tell if its your first kiss or not, cos everyone does it different. and if you're self conscious about it, you really dont need to tell the person its your first kiss- they really wont know.

i think its really sweet if someone kisses my hand or my cheek even!
 
freestylemonster

freestylemonster

Banned
I'm 18 and I just had my first kiss like 2 weeks ago. And like dodger it was really random...But it's really easy you won't do it badly I promise. Just don't try to add tongue in the first time that's where you could go wrong.
 
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