dannyboy65
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So I've been seeing a girl who has autism like me. Well recently we kissed and it was her first kiss. We decided to go official and we did for a day. But she felt very anxious and pressured as she never had a boyfriend. So I called her and she cried telling me that she didn't want to lose me but didn't know how to explain what she is feeling. So I told her we will slow things down and go back to what we were before. I helped her find a counselor and she saw her yesterday. Her counselor told her to not over think our relationship and just let things go naturally. So that's what we've been doing. I saw her the other night and she was so happy to see me and we still hugged and held hands, and she felt normal again.
Although we may not be official yet I know that I will work up to that through time and still love seeing her. Why I said this is different is after I go through something like this the girl kicks me out of her life, where as she does not and still plans to see me often she actually set up a date for tomorrow. I've never built a relationship like this and I'm very much enjoying it and although we had that set back we aren't letting it be a factor.
Although we may not be official yet I know that I will work up to that through time and still love seeing her. Why I said this is different is after I go through something like this the girl kicks me out of her life, where as she does not and still plans to see me often she actually set up a date for tomorrow. I've never built a relationship like this and I'm very much enjoying it and although we had that set back we aren't letting it be a factor.