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    Ten commandments for overcoming SA/SP

    (I read this.) 1. Thou Shalt Not Let the Evaluation of Others Drag Thee Down. 2. Thou Shalt Not Be Perfect. 3. Thou Shalt Learn To Argue With Faulty Logic. 4. Thou Shalt Know Thyself and Appreciate Thy Gifts. 5. Thou Shalt Learn to Relaxxxxx. 6. Thou Shalt Learn the Art of Conversing. 7...
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    Body dysmorphic disorder

    I'm a female in my 20s. Is there another female here who wants to chat about SP/SA and BDD? Write me if you do :D
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    1st time at the doctor

    Well, I cried like a little baby today in front of my G.P. It was the first time I met him too. He was so nice and talked with me for an entire hour. I've never had a doctor spend that much time with me before! He must have felt really sorry for me. Anyway, he prescribed Paxil-CR for me...
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    Need exposure therapy plus a job?

    If any of you are looking for a job, let me suggest working as a home health aide for the elderly. First off, they are so concerned with their own ailments to focus on what’s going on with me emotionally. I can just baby them and ask them about themselves and they just go on and on. It’s nice...
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    Sister's in love

    My sister is basically all I have. I have many friends from the past that I keep in touch with over the phone but she is the one I can laugh around, fart and wear no make up in front of, walk around naked around. She’s like my best friend. Now she has a boyfriend after knowing this guy for...
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    All Pain is the Same

    I know this is a simple concept but I thought I would share it…I heard Oprah say the other day that all pain is the same and I believe this is true. I believe that our road to recovery is comparable to quitting heroin or recovering from anorexia. But in their cases they can physically measure...
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    Do you think it's possible

    to be a confident person with social anxiety? Or is low self-esteem married to SA?
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    Try this...it could help.

    The other day I was reading from a book while taping myself. I would rewind the tape and do it over until I liked the sound of my voice...took like 15 tries. You know what...it really gave me a surge of confidence. I started making phone calls after that and was ready to start my day on a...
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    Eye twitch

    When I close my eyes, even when I'm alone, my eyes twitch...for a few seconds before I'm calm. They flutter. I remember a time when someone would ask me to close my eyes in front of them and I had no problem doing it...that was before SA. Who else has this problem? This past year in an...
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    Physical characteristics

    Does anyone remember having a certain physical characteristic that you were really insecure about that might have contributed to your SA? I think that may be true for me. Maybe not what entirely caused it but a good proportion of it. I may have BDD. Also, since I'm unable to work right...
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    Alcohol a crutch for dating

    I met a guy and we hung out 3 times last week. He’s perfect…confident (in a band), intelligent, founder of an organization to help the environment in our community, tall & attractive. The problem is when I drink alcohol, my SA goes away so he doesn’t know the entire me. He thinks I’m this...
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