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Well, i do have Facebook, but outside of that, I have no friends- I dont know how to make friends, I can go to crowded places, the local coffee bar, etc, but am baffled how to strike up conversations, so Im usually quiet and read a book. I can't make connections to people. Its painful, mostly...

I successfully completed graduate school, but am suddenly overwelmed with terror about applying for a professional job in the field- I had a definite interview set up by a friend, but chickened out. I am getting panic attacks just thinking about going to an interview. I am terrified, and am...

Hi there! I'm a 40 year old swm, I'm a teacher, and love my job, i know i'm a good teacher...I just don't seem to have a life outside of teaching- In social settings like bars or clubs, i'm totally tounge tied and very nervous. I have no problem attending social venues like concerts, or going...

I'm still trying to peg what disorder I have- I defiantly have social anxiety disorder- and am very shy- BUT I'm a teacher, and am very comfortable in front of students, and giving lectures- it's just in social situations where I have no control- like bars, whre I get totally tounge tied. I'm...

My difficluties socializing and interacting with people has gurenteed one thing- my love life would be as robust as that of a Bishop- I.e non existant... Failure with women has resulted in years between sexual experinces for me- I'm curious if I'm the only guy with this dilemma- I'm not a...

My older brother is a super outgoing Alpha male who was always big man on campus, very successful with women, and one of those charasmatic people that has the uncanny knack to befriend just about everyone he meets. I was always refered to by classmates as 'Bill's" brother- Living in someone's...

I turned 40 this year, and am determined to force myself to be more outgoinig and social- I went to a club where they give salsa dancing lessons- It was fun until people were instructed to find a partner-....I panicked. next thing I knew, I was sitting in a bathroom stall hyper-ventalating. I...