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The UK totally sucks! Everything seems to be centred around high amounts of alcohol consumption. I must be one of the small percentage who doesn't think its clever to get drunk 3 or 4 times a week. However, it seems to be the easiest way to meet women (or men if you're a girl). In London...

..and it wasn't one of my better nights! To start with, a member of my department is leaving the UK and to say goodbye he booked a function room at a local bar. A lot of my team turned up but about half of them came from other parts of the company. I generally stuck with the people I knew...

When you are in a bar talking to a woman, what are you supposed to say to them?! I mean, I can dry up quite quicky but this generally depends upon who I'm talking to. If they are talkative it's not so bad. But at other times the woman just looks at me with a blank face, waiting and waiting...

Good news - I got invited to a party in a couple of weeks. There should be lots of nice women there! :-) Bad news - I went to a bar after work. A new co-worker girl turned up and some of my collegues were trying to get me to hit on this girl. She is pretty but I was a)tired, and b)didn't...

A question for the girls really... Do girls, not just the shy ones, ever feel that they are 'not good enough' for certain guys? The thing is, I have this problem all the time. I'm coming to terms with the idea I'm physically good enough looking to the majority of girls. Not all of them of...

I went out with some co-workers tonight after some ex-university friends had to drop out of a reunion meeting... So we went to a bar all evening and basically got drunk (I'm a bit drunk now and it's 1:15am). The girl I had a crush on was there with her new boyfriend (also a co-worker)...

..Yes. But I still have my doubts! (Typical shyness / negative thoughts) Anyway, this girl works at my local gym and I have 'known her for about a year, or just over a year. I first noticed her looking at me occasionally but it took me about 4 months to actually get the courage to say...

For most of my life I have suffered from acne in one form or another. Never anything serious but enough to knock my confidence and cause me some anxiety... Well about 2 years ago I started getting this redness on my cheeks- like a rash which led me to start using a concealer to cover up the...

Hi, let me start by giving you some background... I work with a very good looking girl 26yr old (me 28) who basically extremely outgoing and friends with a lot of guys in the office. (We work in a male dominated environment). To my surprise, we have become quite friendly and I have developed...

Hi there, I posted on here a few months ago but am not a regular visitor. At work there is a rather nice girl who recently split from her fiance. After this happened she started flirting with me a lot. For various reasons I was away over christmas and the new year. When I got back she...

Hi there, There's this outgoing girl I have known for about 6 months who works in my office but in a different department. The reason I know her is because we are both on our company graduate training scheme, however, she joined the firm this year whereas I've been there since 2003. I think...

Hi, I am new to the forum and thought I'd share a few of my experiences. I am a 27 year old guy living in the UK and have been suffering from shyness and sometimes anxiety for most of my life. I guess it is only the last 8 years (only lol) which have been the worst, the reason being that I...