lilcharlie
Active member
Last time I wrote a whole essay on this because it really got to me, but this time I'll try to make it short. I'm writing again, because I'm starting to feel it again.
Okay, this sounds kind of insignificant but it still bothers me; can any of you relate?: Do any of you get tired of people sometimes looking at you, staring you up and down, talking about how you look, your hair clothes etc, the attention you get because of your looks, or how people treat you because of your looks? There's a lot of things in life that are more important to me than this, trust me, but I hate the attention- day in and day out, week after week. If any of you can relate, great. People think I party/drink/do drugs, slut around, most girls look at me/ treat me not nice until they get to know me, most guys treat me the way they do/ say the things they do because of how I look. It gets to me because it's all so superficial. I've suppressed my feelings for a long time but sometimes I start to feel suffocated and I just need to vent.
On a normal okay bad day I'm 2-4, on a "I take care of myself day," I'm 5-6.5. lol Lots and lots of girls at work dress up way more than I do, like they work at New York Stock Exchange or something, but gawd forbid I wear something slightly different, people will talk! Sigh there is just more to talk about or life than the way someone looks. I hardly talk about someone's looks unless it stands out to me, and if I do, I do it sparingly. But I know everyone's different, some people like attention, some people don't care, and other people like me get bothered.
Thanks for reading.
Okay, this sounds kind of insignificant but it still bothers me; can any of you relate?: Do any of you get tired of people sometimes looking at you, staring you up and down, talking about how you look, your hair clothes etc, the attention you get because of your looks, or how people treat you because of your looks? There's a lot of things in life that are more important to me than this, trust me, but I hate the attention- day in and day out, week after week. If any of you can relate, great. People think I party/drink/do drugs, slut around, most girls look at me/ treat me not nice until they get to know me, most guys treat me the way they do/ say the things they do because of how I look. It gets to me because it's all so superficial. I've suppressed my feelings for a long time but sometimes I start to feel suffocated and I just need to vent.
On a normal okay bad day I'm 2-4, on a "I take care of myself day," I'm 5-6.5. lol Lots and lots of girls at work dress up way more than I do, like they work at New York Stock Exchange or something, but gawd forbid I wear something slightly different, people will talk! Sigh there is just more to talk about or life than the way someone looks. I hardly talk about someone's looks unless it stands out to me, and if I do, I do it sparingly. But I know everyone's different, some people like attention, some people don't care, and other people like me get bothered.
Thanks for reading.