my viscious cycle...

no1

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my vicious cycle...

I go through a vicious cycle... of knowing my life is full of ****.. and until I fix it, I wont do anything to fix it because I can't bring myself to feel motivated... thus making it impossible to fix anything.

With girls.. I feel like until I dont get a girlfriend (or feel like I get somewhere socially) I feel like my life is going nowhere, and until then it's hard to muster up the motivation to do much, and that makes it harder if not impossible to find a girl, and thus my life goes down the drain.

When I DO start to do something... I can easily feel unmotivated again as it will feel like I'm just doing nothing and being worthless.

I feel stuck...
 
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no1

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on top of everything.. I have had severe insomnia for about 4 yrs.. and that is enough to make me feel tired ALL the time. Everyday, it doesn't get any better it's seemed. With that sort of tiredness how am I ever going to get anywhere worthwhile?
 

lyricalliaisons

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I've felt that same way on for years. It's like a vicious never-ending cycle.

In regards to your insomnia, if it's possible, you should try seeing a sleep specialist for it. (I have no idea what the technical name for a sleep specialist is.) I've had insomnia since I was 13 & I'm 27 now. It's not as bad as it once was, but it was never as bad as yours seems. There might be something a sleep specialist can do about it.
 

newbie

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I go through a vicious cycle... of knowing my life is full of ****.. and until I fix it, I wont do anything to fix it because I can't bring myself to feel motivated... thus making it impossible to fix anything.

With girls.. I feel like until I dont get a girlfriend (or feel like I get somewhere socially) I feel like my life is going nowhere, and until then it's hard to muster up the motivation to do much, and that makes it harder if not impossible to find a girl, and thus my life goes down the drain.

When I DO start to do something... I can easily feel unmotivated again as it will feel like I'm just doing nothing and being worthless.

I feel stuck...

yes mate, i'm just like you in the sense of wanting to do something so bad but at the same time can't be bothered, its like the determination part doesn't exist
if you told an average person this, (which i have) they thought i was full of shit and lazy....maybe i am?!? but yes anyways hang in there buddy, try to do easy stuff all the time rather than thinking about it or if you have work or school MAKE yourself go even tho it'll feel like hell
unless the people make you feel like shit then you must do it everyday. if you have money and don't work you must force yourself to do something, create a self discipline within yourself...which is goning to be super hard when nothing is forcing you
so i'm telling you now do it! something anything
even if its just going to shops and getting food for e.g
if going outside is too hard then force yourself, make your aim to see the sky from outside...
stuff like that
good luck
 
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