I hate when guys like me, and I don't like them back...

It makes me feel all anxious and retarded, and I don't know how to talk to them anymore. And it's so hard to just say.. DUDE.. JUST FRIENDS. JUUUUUUUST FRIENDS(because you don't know for sure, their intention and you don't want to assume anything). And even then, they don't take the hint.

And I hate when they try to impress me, you know.. A guy can do a lot of impressing, without trying so FREAKIN HARD! Try hards end up looking like idiots. K. Just be yourself.

Anyway this whole thing makes my heart feel like 1000 pounds.

I'm sorry that was a major rant but I have no one else to say that too. As much as I am interested in being with a guy, I don't want just any guy, and I don't want a guy who tries too hard, or a guy who tries to woo me, when all I do is act as a friend.

And it's funny, because... Some people flirt when they are interested in someone, but for me.. I act the total opposite.. I act so uninterested in them.. I don't know if other people are like that? Is anyone here like that? I just... Try not to make it obvious that I like them. Maybe it's because I have a fear of rejection, or I don't want them to know, for some weiiiiiird messed up reason... I wonder why I don't want them to know, maybe because every time I have liked someone, someone else has fucked it up for me. *GIGANTIC SIGH*

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there's a girl at my work who I'm like that with....I really like her...I think she has SA...she reminds me of me when I was younger!.....but I dunno why but I just can't seem to talk to her like I talk to everyone else [my SA's not too bad these days btw]...it's like, if didn't slightly fancy her, I'd probably chat with her fine cause I wouldn't care so much about her opinion....but this particular girls opinion I care the most about and yet she probably thinks I hate her or something the way I barely open my mouth to even say hello sometimes!

RedRibbons said:

And it's funny, because... Some people flirt when they are interested in someone, but for me.. I act the total opposite.. I act so uninterested in them.. I don't know if other people are like that? Is anyone here like that?

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Yes, I do the same.

I don't think that is so strange, Redribbons, the not wanting them to know thing. I do the same exact thing. If I like a guy I act very cool towards him even though my heart is pounding in my chest and I really just want to jump on him! :lol: I don't usually like obvious affection. Not off the bat, anyway. I like a guy to be interested but not annoying about it. I've never been the 'flip my hair, giggle, touchy-touchy, rub my boobs on him' kind of girl either. UGH! don't understand girls like that. I think their kinda pathetic, although... come to think of it... they usually have a man... Hmmm... :idea: