MentalyBlind
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Okay! so we all have had a really crappy relationship or two in the past or are still going through one and you can't figure out how to get around your partners emotions or figure them out! well I am here to help you out with that! and since this works on every single person on the planet you can practice on everyone you know! goooooood for you.
So the key to read someone's mind is to read their face! yes you heard me right, their face. yes of course you have to listen to them but there face tells what they really mean.
so the way to read someones face is to not look them in the eyes but around them and around the mouth, most of the time most of the action is going on around the mouth and nose and since it takes more muscle action to move your eyebrows it will be easy to catch.
the 5 things to look out for is:
1:voice
2:face
3:verbal style (pitch and pauses)
4:body movements (shoulder shrug = lie)
5:verbal content
and since I am trained for the past 6 years to tell when a patient is lying to me I instantly smell bull****.
so there are 5 expressions to look out for when talking to people:
1:contempt
2:disgust
3:fear
4:anger
5:sadness
now im going to start with contempt, now with contempt this one is a nightmare when your scanning. if you come across this just move on to a different person don't even waste your time if your doing this at the bar and see this expression. what to look for is an Asymmetrical smile (a smile on one side of your face and dead on the other) sometimes it's on the left sometimes it's on the right, if you look at politicians they do it all the time.
Now contempt isn't always hatred it can also mean moral superiority over you. even still be careful when you see this on someones face.
now disgust is pretty complicated to pick out, but the way to catch it is that the face moves toward the middle like how when you ask if someone likes to sniff dog crap, yea see your face scrunches up like your thinking "YUCK"
so another thing to remember that some people will try and hide their expressions it will be something quick and slight or it will be obviously expressed. so the normal places that people will look is in your eyes because it's a social norm of respect and show that your listening to them, it's how most people are brought up, but yea it's a total waste of your time looking into their eyes because the eyes don't really tell you anything. On the other hand the eyebrows tell a lot. so if the eyebrows comedown together it's interest and intrest can be good and bad like "wtf" or "oh thats cool" so yea they are not always saying they are angry it can also show that they are thinking about what your talking about.
if the eyes tighten and the eyebrows go down and the lips shrink inwards congrats you just pissed them off.
now when you do look into someones eyes they tend to look away now and again now when they look away it don't mean the are lying, so when they look up down left or right they are gathering information like if someone asks you a question your eyes will dart around it's like a computer mouse clicking files in your brain trying to find the right answer like it was google.
but when they are lying they will not look around the will widen their eyes a bit and then it shifts back to normal, thats a tell of how a lie is born in mid though, and when that happens look for fidgeting and shifting in body weight or their shoulders jump slightly.
im going to have to cut this short for now I'll finish this later. feel free to expand on this and I'll tell you if it's false or not.
So the key to read someone's mind is to read their face! yes you heard me right, their face. yes of course you have to listen to them but there face tells what they really mean.
so the way to read someones face is to not look them in the eyes but around them and around the mouth, most of the time most of the action is going on around the mouth and nose and since it takes more muscle action to move your eyebrows it will be easy to catch.
the 5 things to look out for is:
1:voice
2:face
3:verbal style (pitch and pauses)
4:body movements (shoulder shrug = lie)
5:verbal content
and since I am trained for the past 6 years to tell when a patient is lying to me I instantly smell bull****.
so there are 5 expressions to look out for when talking to people:
1:contempt
2:disgust
3:fear
4:anger
5:sadness
now im going to start with contempt, now with contempt this one is a nightmare when your scanning. if you come across this just move on to a different person don't even waste your time if your doing this at the bar and see this expression. what to look for is an Asymmetrical smile (a smile on one side of your face and dead on the other) sometimes it's on the left sometimes it's on the right, if you look at politicians they do it all the time.
Now contempt isn't always hatred it can also mean moral superiority over you. even still be careful when you see this on someones face.
now disgust is pretty complicated to pick out, but the way to catch it is that the face moves toward the middle like how when you ask if someone likes to sniff dog crap, yea see your face scrunches up like your thinking "YUCK"
so another thing to remember that some people will try and hide their expressions it will be something quick and slight or it will be obviously expressed. so the normal places that people will look is in your eyes because it's a social norm of respect and show that your listening to them, it's how most people are brought up, but yea it's a total waste of your time looking into their eyes because the eyes don't really tell you anything. On the other hand the eyebrows tell a lot. so if the eyebrows comedown together it's interest and intrest can be good and bad like "wtf" or "oh thats cool" so yea they are not always saying they are angry it can also show that they are thinking about what your talking about.
if the eyes tighten and the eyebrows go down and the lips shrink inwards congrats you just pissed them off.
now when you do look into someones eyes they tend to look away now and again now when they look away it don't mean the are lying, so when they look up down left or right they are gathering information like if someone asks you a question your eyes will dart around it's like a computer mouse clicking files in your brain trying to find the right answer like it was google.
but when they are lying they will not look around the will widen their eyes a bit and then it shifts back to normal, thats a tell of how a lie is born in mid though, and when that happens look for fidgeting and shifting in body weight or their shoulders jump slightly.
im going to have to cut this short for now I'll finish this later. feel free to expand on this and I'll tell you if it's false or not.
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