Also I think it would help to know that often times other people's reactions to you may not be exactly how they wanted or meant to react to you. It's important to not read in too deeply to how others reactions or mannerisms. I used to worry, still do, about this, but I've been practicing over the past few months to shrug off what I perceive to be negative reactions to me when I socialize with people at work (that's the only place I can currently get myself to somewhat socialize comfortably). By practicing this and focusing on how I feel about the interaction, I feel that I've gotten to know and be comfortable with more people at work than I used to at previous jobs. I think everyone with or without SA senses various degrees of perceived judgment/criticizm from others, so by turning your focus on how you feel in the interaction, away from how you are perceiving you make them feel with your interactions, you can actually show the person that you're not meaning to judge them or project a negative feeling on them. Hope this helps. It's something I've been thinking about a lot since starting psycho****ysis 4xweek, 3 months ago.