Checkonit22
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Don't know how to feel.
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rbecca
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I know EXACTLY how you feel, though i had this with a best friend.
She'd keeeep talking about how awesome her days were, and what she did with who,what she bought and show it to me. Then, when i tell her about stuff, she's like Ahw,yeah,lol,haha.
ugh x.x
You've done your best,you've been kind and a true friend(/crush), if it's not mutual,then it's not good to keep doing your best.
You shouldn't be the one giving 100% while you only get 20% back.
If i were you, i'd truly just stay friends, and if that doesn't work then slooowly,let go.
I know you'll feel bad about it, i've been there too. But really you can do much better than that C:
She'd keeeep talking about how awesome her days were, and what she did with who,what she bought and show it to me. Then, when i tell her about stuff, she's like Ahw,yeah,lol,haha.
ugh x.x
You've done your best,you've been kind and a true friend(/crush), if it's not mutual,then it's not good to keep doing your best.
You shouldn't be the one giving 100% while you only get 20% back.
If i were you, i'd truly just stay friends, and if that doesn't work then slooowly,let go.
I know you'll feel bad about it, i've been there too. But really you can do much better than that C:
Checkonit22
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Its not unusual to stop talking to people when they have decided not to take things further. In fact, I've seen this happen quite often, so don't feel bad about it. However, maybe you could find another girl to focus on? That way, as time passes, you would feel less for the person, and even longer while later, they would fade into the background.
TheSanctuarian
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I'm sorry about this, but can I temporarily commandeer this thread? It is relevant because girls can be cryptic and irritating.
A couple of months ago Me and this Girl (to make it easier we can caller Jane) decided that we liked each other. It was nice, as there was flirting and I really fell for her again (not our first rodeo) and she said she felt the same. However we didn't chose to go out due to the exam period and we thought that it would not be fair to start at a rough time.
After the exams were finished, we met up a couple of times (in a group of friends) and I couldn't get the courage to ask her about us while we were alone. Her birthday came up and due to lack of funds I couldnt buy her anything. So I decided to make some cakes and take them round, when I hot there her whole family were there and it was very awkward handing her these pathetic looking cakes. I felt terrible. But I left and that was that.
However...a couple of days passed and I decided to text her again to see if she wanted to do anything, from which I get a reply froma an anonymous number. "look Jane is not interested, and she is getting irritated by your constant texts and visits"
It really made me want to hide in the dark, as it came to a huge shock. It was a few days ago now but I am meant to be meeting up again as a group with her and others. I don't know wether to not go.
Once again sorry, are problems are equal but I apologise for "spamming" your thread
A couple of months ago Me and this Girl (to make it easier we can caller Jane) decided that we liked each other. It was nice, as there was flirting and I really fell for her again (not our first rodeo) and she said she felt the same. However we didn't chose to go out due to the exam period and we thought that it would not be fair to start at a rough time.
After the exams were finished, we met up a couple of times (in a group of friends) and I couldn't get the courage to ask her about us while we were alone. Her birthday came up and due to lack of funds I couldnt buy her anything. So I decided to make some cakes and take them round, when I hot there her whole family were there and it was very awkward handing her these pathetic looking cakes. I felt terrible. But I left and that was that.
However...a couple of days passed and I decided to text her again to see if she wanted to do anything, from which I get a reply froma an anonymous number. "look Jane is not interested, and she is getting irritated by your constant texts and visits"
It really made me want to hide in the dark, as it came to a huge shock. It was a few days ago now but I am meant to be meeting up again as a group with her and others. I don't know wether to not go.
Once again sorry, are problems are equal but I apologise for "spamming" your thread
Checkonit22
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megalon
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I would say you should "get it from the horse's mouth" so to speak. Be up front and ask her about it. The other text could've been a nosy friend or relative and maybe she doesn't even have knowledge of this text.
TheSanctuarian
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@megalon - OK, I shall go to the gathering and see how she is towards me. if she is the same to me and other people then i'll mention it, if she is quiet i'll ignore her back.
@Checkonit22 - I think you are right, there is no point chasing a lost cause. I'll go to the gathering only as it is for another friends birthday. but after that I will sever ties.
Thanks guys, once again, sorry for commandeering the thread. I finally figured out how to make my own thread, so I won't have to do this again.
@Checkonit22 - I think you are right, there is no point chasing a lost cause. I'll go to the gathering only as it is for another friends birthday. but after that I will sever ties.
Thanks guys, once again, sorry for commandeering the thread. I finally figured out how to make my own thread, so I won't have to do this again.