Seeing the doc tomorrow

I finally made an appointment to see the doctor. I've been talking myself out of this for years. I thought I'd outgrow all this but if anything my nerves are worse than when I was younger and had less responsibility.

I'm going to ask him to prescribe me an anti-anxiety drug. Problem is I don't know what. I know I don't want an SSRI if I can help it. I don't want anything addictive either, though I figure this will be unavoidable. I researched this a bit and GABA boosters look promising.

So what I'm asking is, what do you guys recommend? I don't have insurance so cost is a big factor, lol. I know there are threads like this and I've read them but my appointment is at noon tomorrow and I want any additional input you guys can give.

BTW I'm nervous as hell, imagine him laughing me out of his office, etc. Thanks, social anxiety.
 
Well he insisted on trying counseling instead. Times like these I wish I was more assertive, except if I was I obviously wouldn't have been there. He gave me the number to some therapy place but I'm not calling.

I think I'll just look into some OTC herbal type stuff. Thanks for the suggestions anyway Noca.
 

Beyondshy

Well-known member
Well he insisted on trying counseling instead. Times like these I wish I was more assertive, except if I was I obviously wouldn't have been there. He gave me the number to some therapy place but I'm not calling.

I think I'll just look into some OTC herbal type stuff. Thanks for the suggestions anyway Noca.

This is what happened when I went to see the doctor a couple of years ago. It took so much effort for me to actually make an appointment and talk to the doctor about anxiety and depression so when he suggested that I speak to a counsellor my anxiety by this time was so high I just wanted to escape. The next day I went to see the counsellor to arrange when to see her properly. I didn't feel at all comfortable and when she suggested that I join a social club I felt like there was no point talking to her at all so I didn't make an appointment.
Why aren't you going to phone the therapy place though?
 

Noca

Banned
if your doing therapy, may I suggest CBT exposure therapy? Its better than drugs and gives permanent results ;)
 
This is what happened when I went to see the doctor a couple of years ago. It took so much effort for me to actually make an appointment and talk to the doctor about anxiety and depression so when he suggested that I speak to a counsellor my anxiety by this time was so high I just wanted to escape. The next day I went to see the counsellor to arrange when to see her properly. I didn't feel at all comfortable and when she suggested that I join a social club I felt like there was no point talking to her at all so I didn't make an appointment.
Why aren't you going to phone the therapy place though?

Too afraid to, at least for the moment.

if your doing therapy, may I suggest CBT exposure therapy? Its better than drugs and gives permanent results ;)

I'll look into it. I've always looked at prescription drugs as kind of a last resort anyway.

Thanks for the input guys.
 
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