burner21
Active member
hello all, i'm new on here so i dont know if this has been talked about already or not but, I want to know your thoughts on going to places like concerts and movies all by yourself.
I've been shy/socially anxious seems like all my life and I want to try to lessen it. I'd like to get out and do more fun stuff, but my friends never call (they stopped calling cause I would usually start to get that anxious feeling and make up an excuse not to go) and I really hate calling people on the phone, even if theyre friends (i'm afraid they'll have something better to do, and im uncomfortable and not good at organizing things). so i'm thinking of doing stuff on my own.
ive always been nervous about going to these "social events" alone, i guess its always been a self-consciousness issue and i was wondering if you all have opinions or advice or whatever to help on this subject ... or anything a shy guy can do to lessen his SA
I've been shy/socially anxious seems like all my life and I want to try to lessen it. I'd like to get out and do more fun stuff, but my friends never call (they stopped calling cause I would usually start to get that anxious feeling and make up an excuse not to go) and I really hate calling people on the phone, even if theyre friends (i'm afraid they'll have something better to do, and im uncomfortable and not good at organizing things). so i'm thinking of doing stuff on my own.
ive always been nervous about going to these "social events" alone, i guess its always been a self-consciousness issue and i was wondering if you all have opinions or advice or whatever to help on this subject ... or anything a shy guy can do to lessen his SA