Diend
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I am eighteen years old now and I suddenly realize that I have some untreated emotional scars from the past. As a student, I felt consistently isolated and labeled "nerd" because of my academic leanings. I didn't appear modest about it either, and was ultra-competitive with my peers. Now, I am intimidated by anyone who is not labeled a "nerd" in my mind. I've found it hard to become a "nerd" again because I irrationally believe that being a "nerd" has led me to be disliked by my peers. Nowadays, in college, whenever I try to do challenge myself academically, there is always a little voice in the back of my mind telling me "don't! you'll be labeled a nerd! You will be shunned!". Even writing this post now, I am beginning to feel sad and slightly teary-eyed.
Now, isn't that an irrational emotional scar that needs to be dealt with?
However, I believe that the reason I didn't succeed socially during school days was not because I was academically inclined but because I kept to myself and lacked social skills. I understand that rationally, but my body still reacts negatively when I'm in social situations and I am constantly wary of being judged by the "non-nerds". Are there any resources I can use to overcome this irrational emotional scar?
Now, isn't that an irrational emotional scar that needs to be dealt with?
However, I believe that the reason I didn't succeed socially during school days was not because I was academically inclined but because I kept to myself and lacked social skills. I understand that rationally, but my body still reacts negatively when I'm in social situations and I am constantly wary of being judged by the "non-nerds". Are there any resources I can use to overcome this irrational emotional scar?