Desire for the opposite sex

Argamemnon

Argamemnon

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My desire for the opposite sex is decreasing as each day passes. I believe with age comes a sense of peace and calm. I think it's possible to be happy without being in a relationship. You just have to focus on other things in life - there is so much more to life than the opposite sex. I'm really not saying this to console myself. What do you think?
 
Gone

Gone

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I get what your saying and i agree you could be happy without a girlfriend/wife, not that it had to be a bad thing at all.

Like ive read Kien say, Not everyone is meant for relationships.
*Looks at himself*.
 
ljwwriter

ljwwriter

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I think it's good to tell yourself that. I've done it...but eventually it may become a bit too hard to believe, especially when everyone else around you has eloped and you're still romantically uninvolved. By the time I hit my 40's and 50's I think I had better have something else in place to take my mind off of the fact that I don't have anyone to grow old with.
 
Kien

Kien

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Gone said:
I get what your saying and i agree you could be happy without a girlfriend/wife, not that it had to be a bad thing at all.

Like ive read Kien say, Not everyone is meant for relationships.
*Looks at himself*.
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Wow! Never thought I was going to be mentioned. (O,o)
 
Gone

Gone

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Kien said:
Gone said:
I get what your saying and i agree you could be happy without a girlfriend/wife, not that it had to be a bad thing at all.

Like ive read Kien say, Not everyone is meant for relationships.
*Looks at himself*.
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Wow! Never thought I was going to be mentioned. (O,o)
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Yeah when i read his post the first thing i thought was Kien, no serriously i just remembered your viewpoint from way back, becouse i agreed when i read it.
 
gh1234

gh1234

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i want this desire to stop.. cause i'm a college student and need to concentrate on my studies.. ahhhhh can't be happy
 
asubscriber99

asubscriber99

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it's normal to lose some desire as you grow older.

I wonder if you take paxil, because it decreases your libido.

i thought about staying alone for the rest of my life, but i think i just can't. especially when you see that everyone else is happy with his woman, and you stay alone!javascript:emoticon(':roll:')
Rolling Eyes
 
coriander1992

coriander1992

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Kien said:
Gone said:
I get what your saying and i agree you could be happy without a girlfriend/wife, not that it had to be a bad thing at all.

Like ive read Kien say, Not everyone is meant for relationships.
*Looks at himself*.
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Wow! Never thought I was going to be mentioned. (O,o)
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Hehe kien you've finally found another defeatest :wink: :lol:

Oonly joking. :p
 
Carstuar

Carstuar

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I wish I could give up that burning desire to be with someone, but it only gets worse as more time passes, really.
 
Kien

Kien

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coriander1992 said:
Kien said:
Gone said:
I get what your saying and i agree you could be happy without a girlfriend/wife, not that it had to be a bad thing at all.

Like ive read Kien say, Not everyone is meant for relationships.
*Looks at himself*.
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Wow! Never thought I was going to be mentioned. (O,o)
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Hehe kien you've finally found another defeatest :wink: :lol:

Oonly joking. :p
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(o,o)
 
TAMPA-BAY

TAMPA-BAY

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Lost desire.

I am rather disapointed with the attitudes of the previous posters. Nothing but doom and gloom.

Haven't any one ever heard the old stock saying that past performance is no guarentee of future performance. I mean jeezes we have all had a bad start but so what? We still have a long time before we reach the ripe old age of 100. Is every one saying that they dont think they can turn things around in the next 10yrs? You must believe that you can better or else you would not be on a support site.

Another thing that piss me off is when every one acts like all the couples they see are showing us the whole story. There is a reason for the high divorce rate right?

Being single or in a couple is not good or bad. Being single or in a relationship wont fix ours problems. If any of us find a parthner tonight we will still have our anxiety tomorow. Lets work on fixing the root of the problem then every thing might fall into place.
 
coriander1992

coriander1992

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Re: Lost desire.

TAMPA-BAY said:
I am rather disapointed with the attitudes of the previous posters. Nothing but doom and gloom.

Haven't any one ever heard the old stock saying that past performance is no guarentee of future performance. I mean jeezes we have all had a bad start but so what? We still have a long time before we reach the ripe old age of 100. Is every one saying that they dont think they can turn things around in the next 10yrs? You must believe that you can better or else you would not be on a support site.

Another thing that piss me off is when every one acts like all the couples they see are showing us the whole story. There is a reason for the high divorce rate right?

Being single or in a couple is not good or bad. Being single or in a relationship wont fix ours problems. If any of us find a parthner tonight we will still have our anxiety tomorow. Lets work on fixing the root of the problem then every thing might fall into place.
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Kudos! :)
 
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