SilentAndShy
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The reason why I ask is because erm I think I maybe one but not in a scary sort of way.
I used to see this girl at my last job, thought she was beautiful. Unfortunately she wasn't on my team but I used to see quite regurlar without saying hi. Closest thing we had of communication was a smile we exchanged and I missed a big chance when she was sat near me in our chill out room.
When i went part time, she went part time but again hardly spoke to her. I've noticed her on fb and we, surprisingly, we have a mutual friend.
I was tempted to add her but decided against it...however, sound weird, but she came up in my dreams last night that she was messaging me on FB and we were chatting. Although dreams are probably not best way as proof to start a conversation
I'm tempted to add her but send a message but I don't know what to say because I don't work there anymore. It might come across creepy!
Secondly, it made me think how I like girls when I see them and want to engage in a conversation but because I can't due to SA, I tend to come across them on FB and just admire them online because I can't initiate anything in person.
In the past, I tried adding someone who I didn't speak too at all but our families knew each other......She then disappeared from FB lol so I scared her off.
Thoughts on my dilemma and just in general views of your social media dealings, if similiar to mine.
I used to see this girl at my last job, thought she was beautiful. Unfortunately she wasn't on my team but I used to see quite regurlar without saying hi. Closest thing we had of communication was a smile we exchanged and I missed a big chance when she was sat near me in our chill out room.
When i went part time, she went part time but again hardly spoke to her. I've noticed her on fb and we, surprisingly, we have a mutual friend.
I was tempted to add her but decided against it...however, sound weird, but she came up in my dreams last night that she was messaging me on FB and we were chatting. Although dreams are probably not best way as proof to start a conversation
I'm tempted to add her but send a message but I don't know what to say because I don't work there anymore. It might come across creepy!
Secondly, it made me think how I like girls when I see them and want to engage in a conversation but because I can't due to SA, I tend to come across them on FB and just admire them online because I can't initiate anything in person.
In the past, I tried adding someone who I didn't speak too at all but our families knew each other......She then disappeared from FB lol so I scared her off.
Thoughts on my dilemma and just in general views of your social media dealings, if similiar to mine.