I just watched the first 15 mins of the vid.
Anyone that's seen my posts knows I think looks are overrated. I myself am a little above average in looks, yet I don't have attractive women beating down my door.
Did my slightly above average looks help me get dates and have some fun, yes. So looks can matter, but an average looking guy who has a lot of money can get girls that I could never get with my low financial and low status.
The video seems to be more complaining about the guys that are good-looking, and looking for ways to say "looks are everything." It's a common complaint among certain guys who aren't getting dates.
Looks can matter. But, to say lack of looks is the sole reason why a guy is not getting action just isn't true. Social confidence, charisma, money....those things can be more important than looks with a lot of women.
It depends on the woman, too. Not all women have the same standards. Some women just want looks, some just want a popular charismatic guy, some want a guy who never shuts up and is super confident, and some just want money.
The video tries to just isolate looks as being everything in the dating world for men, which just isn't true.