I'm very sorry to hear that Graeme1988, if you'll feel better moving out then I think you should and then you can listen to relaxing music. I don't really know your situation but don't let anyone cause you to think you're a bully and there are people who won't have those violent reactions so you can talk to those people.
My situation, well, I'm disabled, youngest of the family on my Mum's side. Raised by an angry, controlling bitter, verbally, emotionally, and one-time, physically abusive mother. I was 18 at the time of that incident.Raised with 2 older sisters. All of whom are man-hating feminists. My mother going as far to tell me that she
"...doesn't need men in her life"
I've pretty much spent most of my life being the scapegoat. The one who is blamed, even though I didn't do anything wrong. :sad:
I already listen to relaxing music, and read a lot, to keep my family from pestering me. Though, I find blast heavy metal or electronic music that mostly just noise or has repetitive drone to it, usually keep them from entering my bedroom.
Don't feel sorry for me, though. I've stood up to them and called them out for their past behaviour. But they feel they have nothing to apologise for, so I've decided to move out, hopefully by early next year if I can find a suitable place that has disabled access.
Not going to tolerate people who think they can demand respect from me without show me the same. :thumbdown:
I'm done with that. Besides, respect isn't something you can demand, you have to earn that.