Not_a_freak_2008
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I have not been formally diagnosed with SA. But I'm pretty sure I have it. I had always just thought I was a freak, a liar, prone to laziness and making excuses, until I accidentally came across a book about SA. i read all 250 pages of it in one day and related to 75% of its contents. I felt an enormous weight off my shoulders...
Anyways....my worst SA days was back in highschool- I would spend hours debating how I would go about buying something from the supermarket. At some point it dawned on me that I didn't want to live life in fear and I chose to put myself in situations that scare and embarass the shit out of me. I worked as a waitress during uni so that it meant I had to talk to people. it took me 2 years but I forced myself to go for job interviews to get into a good grad program at a good company. I forced myself to take up a job supervising 30 people. And yet... recently, I had a complete melt down and hid in the back room when a collegue came knocking on the front door of my home to pay a surprise visit. I freaked out when my boyfriend of 5 years told me he had a friend coming over for lunch.
I've always wanted to be a certain way... socialable, fun, outgoing, personable... but I know I wasn't ever naturally that way. I didn't know anything about SA then...but I wasn't the type to settle for what is..I'm alway determined to change it to whatever I want it to be. So I think I had/ have SA and spent a lot of years fighting very hard against it.
I'd like to think I'm sucessful and i want to be sucessful. But I do have days whether i question myself and think.. am i just kidding myself???I turn red from being asked a question at meetings- who the hell would want to promote me??
I'd liked to hear stories of how people have dealt / are dealing with SA to achieve a "normal" successful career/life.( because I refuse to believe that SA will rule my life).
Anyways....my worst SA days was back in highschool- I would spend hours debating how I would go about buying something from the supermarket. At some point it dawned on me that I didn't want to live life in fear and I chose to put myself in situations that scare and embarass the shit out of me. I worked as a waitress during uni so that it meant I had to talk to people. it took me 2 years but I forced myself to go for job interviews to get into a good grad program at a good company. I forced myself to take up a job supervising 30 people. And yet... recently, I had a complete melt down and hid in the back room when a collegue came knocking on the front door of my home to pay a surprise visit. I freaked out when my boyfriend of 5 years told me he had a friend coming over for lunch.
I've always wanted to be a certain way... socialable, fun, outgoing, personable... but I know I wasn't ever naturally that way. I didn't know anything about SA then...but I wasn't the type to settle for what is..I'm alway determined to change it to whatever I want it to be. So I think I had/ have SA and spent a lot of years fighting very hard against it.
I'd like to think I'm sucessful and i want to be sucessful. But I do have days whether i question myself and think.. am i just kidding myself???I turn red from being asked a question at meetings- who the hell would want to promote me??
I'd liked to hear stories of how people have dealt / are dealing with SA to achieve a "normal" successful career/life.( because I refuse to believe that SA will rule my life).