"Why must you blame others all the time?"

AaronAgassi

Active member
I am sometimes asked why I blame others for my troubles. The answer is not merely in my failure to see underhanded conniving bullying, ostracism, spite, abuse, dirty tricks, extreme harassment, the vilest and ever escalating character assassination, outrageous slander and taboo as the issue of sound sober judgment and fair-minded justice, but also from such experiences as discovering how at one convention I attended, the complaints against me actually began a full day before my arrival! Of course, just because there are, indeed, enemies who have it in for me, does not actually rule out any failings or misdeed on my own as well. But by Occam's Razor, it does eliminate the explanatory necessity. Indeed, simply because they must have motive, does not make their motives reasonable or just. Especially considering the destructive and dishonest means they employ, and their ongoing refusal to talk things over with me like decent responsible adults. They are the cowards with anything to hide, not me. Again, this is only to explain why I reject the "justice" of a mob of cliquish bullies, not any refusal to hear out and respond to whatsoever reasonably presented grievance howsoever to my face. Furthermore, I completely endorse the right simply of anyone to associate with anyone else or not as they please. I only object to relational bullying designed to isolate and sabotage free choice and contact between others entirely.
 

Jayce

Member
The abuser is ALWAYS to blame for the abusive behaviour. There is NO excuse. No one EVER deserves to be bullied.
 

AaronAgassi

Active member
The convention is a weekend social event that might not be familiar to you, one among many for a particular community of a shared interest or enthusiasm. I was simply attending the convention.
 
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