okay so I'm not trying to talk bull here.. let's use this saying..
last night I realzied(after lying to myself) that i dont have good social skills, and ive always been telling myself it will get better, but that's a lie.. I have to do somehting about it..
Now here comes the saying part!
We must, with proper therapy expose ourselves to people.. when I say this I don't mean trying a couple of times and giving up, I mean keep on doing it even tho you feel sick to your stomach, even if you are making the biggest fool out of yourself, because! : when you have sa and stay home nothing improves, time just passes, when u have sa and expose yourself you will feel bad, but on the long run, u will turn out to be a more confident person with good social skills..
I know this has been said many times, but I'd like someone to rly realize it.
So endure the pain of rejectment and awkwardness, and u will get better..
hope any of this made sence and hopefully I'll try this, as soon as I sort some other stuff out..
wow im rly scared of what I just typed..
last night I realzied(after lying to myself) that i dont have good social skills, and ive always been telling myself it will get better, but that's a lie.. I have to do somehting about it..
Now here comes the saying part!
We must, with proper therapy expose ourselves to people.. when I say this I don't mean trying a couple of times and giving up, I mean keep on doing it even tho you feel sick to your stomach, even if you are making the biggest fool out of yourself, because! : when you have sa and stay home nothing improves, time just passes, when u have sa and expose yourself you will feel bad, but on the long run, u will turn out to be a more confident person with good social skills..
I know this has been said many times, but I'd like someone to rly realize it.
So endure the pain of rejectment and awkwardness, and u will get better..
hope any of this made sence and hopefully I'll try this, as soon as I sort some other stuff out..
wow im rly scared of what I just typed..