JonnyD
Well-known member
i don't know if i'll find anyone with the same problem, maybe it's not common, maybe i'm wrong like always and it's common. anyway i'm going to vent here, i need to...
basically the problem is that i feel like looking for a mate is wrong. i have no problem thinking about a girlfriend, in fact i want to find a girlfriend (even if gives me shakes just typing about it ), but when it comes to the whole talking , dating thing it's feels wrong, feels like i can't do it, feels like its not natural.
its not fear of rejection , i only fear rejection when i'm compelled to talk/interact with someone i'm not familliar t or i feel attracted, but i simplilly won't do anything to get rejected because my mind is made in such way that i feel like it's wrong to even try!
I think i had denied it to myself so much that i my mind made it into a rule.
I have serious issues
basically the problem is that i feel like looking for a mate is wrong. i have no problem thinking about a girlfriend, in fact i want to find a girlfriend (even if gives me shakes just typing about it ), but when it comes to the whole talking , dating thing it's feels wrong, feels like i can't do it, feels like its not natural.
its not fear of rejection , i only fear rejection when i'm compelled to talk/interact with someone i'm not familliar t or i feel attracted, but i simplilly won't do anything to get rejected because my mind is made in such way that i feel like it's wrong to even try!
I think i had denied it to myself so much that i my mind made it into a rule.
I have serious issues
