very confused

[lifesnotfair]

I am bothered by a few things

One, is that my friends offered to set me up with a chick to sleep with me, however i don't want to do it, because i feel that its not really appropriate. For me i can't even so much as smile at a women little lone sleep with one.

So basically i rejected the idea, does anyone think that this isn't right? I guess i am hoping that someday i would lose my virginity to the right person, but i guess one can dream i guess. Does this make me gay that i didn't want to sleep with this person which might i add is my friend. So i don't know.

in one hand, this might be the closest i ever get to a girl at the same time, it will probably hurt my self confidence anymore.

Any thoughts?

 

[Rodox]

Well you dont have to do anything you dont want to,you are not gay because of this,people should understand this,but they dont, ,expect people starting gossiping about you behind your back,or even provoking you about being gay,I have been in a similar situations,people couldnt stop talking about it.

 

[TXwisun]

Gay/not/who cares~!

If you are gay, and don't wanna sleep with the girl, you know. If you are being proper, and don't wanna sleep with the girl, you know. Basically who really matters when it comes to your sexuality, but you? And only YOU can make that decision, or tell that answer about being gay or not.

Although I must say...waiting because of your personal decisions, regardless of your choice, is much better than regretting situations. But some might feel that experience is the best knowledge. More of a personal choice. Make the choice that's right for you.

 

[notepad]

dont be irrationally homophobic

do it if u want to , or not if u dont want to.

if u desperate for any adventure , go for it. just cuz u could die tomorrow ,

it'll prolly end up bad though, cuz IMHO, its better to do it with a good friend /potential gf, than random ppl for teh *first* time.

Good Luck !