allieaust
Active member
I'm so into this guy - i know just about everything about him, i have lived with him he has let me into his world, i have been intimate with him many times, yet we are not in a relationship.
This is where i come in. I havent shown him anything of value in me - infact i have shown the opposite and it really hurts.
I became upset with some of his comments and held it all in until i blurted it to a friend via email and he saw it - i dont even remember what i wrote but i was very sensitive and upset at the time because this person i really like keeps wanting to help me but it can feel like everything about me is wrong - that i have to change.. and so i wrote on a forum also..and the way i wrote stuff was in my one sided negative view at the time- it was quite bad and the others their would say things that he seemed abused etc.. it was really bad... he saw it..
and then there was when i felt really bad and sent him an email- i just didnt like hearing about other women and looks - i dont know i was too sensitive.. i'd been intimate and opened myself up to someone for once - not all the way yet but getting there.. to know he dosent see me as someone he wants to hangout with because of my sp... it hurts.
I havent developed any real areas of my life so their is a hge potential there.. but it's such a rush and i have failed already that he dosent have any hope in me ever getting better and being in society - retreating back into hermit mode etc..
i need to change, i want to show him and myself that i can be a friend - someone not so deppressing , insecure and unfriendly,..
the friend he deserves.
but i have to battle my sp.. and though the thing is - what if im too late - an there are no gaurentees either
This is where i come in. I havent shown him anything of value in me - infact i have shown the opposite and it really hurts.
I became upset with some of his comments and held it all in until i blurted it to a friend via email and he saw it - i dont even remember what i wrote but i was very sensitive and upset at the time because this person i really like keeps wanting to help me but it can feel like everything about me is wrong - that i have to change.. and so i wrote on a forum also..and the way i wrote stuff was in my one sided negative view at the time- it was quite bad and the others their would say things that he seemed abused etc.. it was really bad... he saw it..
and then there was when i felt really bad and sent him an email- i just didnt like hearing about other women and looks - i dont know i was too sensitive.. i'd been intimate and opened myself up to someone for once - not all the way yet but getting there.. to know he dosent see me as someone he wants to hangout with because of my sp... it hurts.
I havent developed any real areas of my life so their is a hge potential there.. but it's such a rush and i have failed already that he dosent have any hope in me ever getting better and being in society - retreating back into hermit mode etc..
i need to change, i want to show him and myself that i can be a friend - someone not so deppressing , insecure and unfriendly,..
the friend he deserves.
but i have to battle my sp.. and though the thing is - what if im too late - an there are no gaurentees either