fear control
i have been teaching for a few years. most of my students have been young, which is easier. i used to worry quite abit about Taiwanese co teachers, but not anymore. I had a subbing assignment, to teach four fifty minute classes of about fifty young teenagers. When I got up there, beside myself with worry. i told them all how nervous I was, how i didnt sleep well last night, then I just talked shit. what helped was that there were smart arses asking if i was gay, did i have a gf and that. i said i was gay, put on a mock gay voice and asked that boy on a date. i found that all the kids giving me shit made it easier and more amusing.
if u take shit personally or be unpersonable, then they will be more vicious. if the students have more of a life than you, so what? u will feel good for what you have achieved. its a big rush teaching, id like to teach in a uni or something with a couple of hundred young adults, even though it terrifies me