Why do you even think you are worse then others? It is these others - they are the problem. And yes, you are better then them in every way.
Do you seriously think that some ball throwing alcohol drinking promiscuous bullying bastard is in any way superior then you? I don't, and never did, that's why I don't think I have this so called shyness (not to this degree at least).
I am secure that the qualities I want to project - compassion, intelligence, independent thinking, politeness, are superior to what these miserable bastards have. And I don't need them, I don't want anything to do with them, I don't want to date the girls they date, let these idiotic bitches suffer! They have a choice, why not choose wisely?
So, raise your head, and be strong, and stand against the world, however you can. That's the only way.