To interact people my age. When dealing with people younger or older it is less unconfortable, I know i just have to be polite, but with people like my clasmates it's really hard because they tell me to "cheer up" or be more expressive, I just smile and seldom have something to say
Any situation where I'm blushing. The blushing destroys everything for me and it just makes me feel useless and to be brutally honest, I just want to die when I blush. To me there's nothing worse than to start blushing at nothing and then the person I talk to, or even worse, all the people around me see that I become a complete mess and then they start asking me 'why' and say that I look like a tomato and comments like that... It's so awkward!!!! Sometimes I don't even feel that I'm blushing and I don't even understand why I'm dong it. Guess I'm used to is by now, but it's still my biggest fear.... I have no idea what to do or say in these situations. Anyone else here who has this problem? and what do you do in these situations?
a lot of things. i guess one situation that i would really fear is being alone with and having to talk to someone i dont know very well, especially a figure of authority (police officer, teacher, employer...). that would make me very anxious and uncomfortable.
Forgetting money/debit card/credit cards at any checkouts, even if no ones behind me. I remeber when I was younger there would always be someone to forget their funds and my dad would be in line cussing under his breath. Even then he said it loud enough where people heard and it'd cause me anxiety. So knowing that's how people always feel when that happens, I'd say thats my biggest social fear.
So now I have to check my purse 5-10 times to make sure I have all my cards and extra cash incase they get rejected. But I check everything like 5-10 times haha.
being in groups with people I am not familiar with, classrooms, parties, basically anywhere where the attention will be on me or it requires me to talk.
Meeting/seeing my partners relatives I.E- sisters , mother , brother , cousins etc .
Going to social places like bowling , cinema , fairs etc .....
What a pathetic bf i am ..... lol
Any situation that involves me looking like an autistic, mentally challenged idiot. There is no other worse feeling than having your peers thinking you are not capable of doing normal everyday things.
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