Should I tell my folks about my SA

Zarrix

Well-known member
I have been pondering over this the last week. They know that I am not socially potent, but they have no idea about the severity of it. I told my mum that I get edgy when people giggle around me. She told me to get over it.

I don't think I should, not at this stage anyway.
 

Doomed2Die

Well-known member
If you want your family to understand you a little more and help, then you need to tell them, It's hard to help someone with a problem you do not know.

Find or organise a nice time for it and hope for the best reaction.
 

SilentType

Banned
Yeah make sure to get ready to educate your family about it, because they probably won't understand at first (at least my family didn't). It's really a family effort to overcome this illness though, so I'd advise you to tell them ASAP.

Peace
 

nhen

Active member
Uhh, not so fast. Some people are pretty close-minded to that sort of thing. Nevertheless, it might be worth a try. It may fail dismally, but at least you tried. You need to ask yourself whether or not you would benefit from their support. I mean, even financial help would be pretty important if you find yourself in a situation where you need to seek professional help or are unable to work. That said, SP is not well understood...most people who don't suffer from it themselves (and some who do) will just tell you to tough it out. "We've all got problems," they'll say. Yeah, except that I have an innate inability to cope with them...that's what it means to have a psychological disorder, duh! *ahem* Sorry, got a little carried away there. As cynical as this sounds, you may just need to play the situation to your advantage. I mean, if they have something you need, unless it's just emotional support, you may have to paint things in a not-so-accurate light. In other words, you may need to articulate the problems in terms they'll understand or accept...and they may find the likelihood or existence of SP a hard pill to swallow.
 
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