Short bullying resource film and i really need your help.

[Lucieieie]

Hey. I'm currently doing a Film and television course at college and for my final major project i am making a bullying resource film that can be taken round schools and colleges or even used in tutorials to raise awareness to the ever rising issue of bullying at school.

I really need to get some primary research from people who have been effected by this and what they think about it, cause all i can seem to find on the net is help websites. I need some real people who have had real experiences cause i dont want to make a patronising film, i want it to be as real as possible.

So!... i was wondering if you guys would help me and fill out this questionnaire as honestly as possible cause it would be a massive help. its in two parts, section one is all about general opinions and thoughts of bullying, the second is about personal experiences. if you do not want to tell me about any personal experiences, which i totally understand that you may not want to, then just put 'N/A' next to the title. Thanks guys, ill keep it short as poss so i wont take up too much of your time.

Could you possibly copy and paste the questions with you answers aswell please, would be a great help. Also if you do not want to post a reply publicly then just email your response to [email protected].


Section One

Name/Domain name:
Gender:
Age:

1. Please define bullying in your own words

2. What do you think is the most common form of bullying?

3. Do you think there is a certain type of person that would be bullied?

4. Please give 3 characteristics, in your opinion, of the type of person that would get bullied

5. Please give 3 characteristics, in your opinion, of the type of person that would bully another person

6. Do you think there is a reason why people bully others, if yes what do you think they are?

7. Please name the people you could confide in if you were being bullied


Section two


8. How old were you when you experienced a bullying situation?

9. Was it an on-going occurrence or a one of condition?

10. Please give an example of the bullying that has happened/is happening to you

11. Why do you think the bully had bullied/is bullying you?

12. Give three words describing how you felt/feel when you were/are being bullied.

13. If you could say anything to the bully, what would it be?

14. How has the bullying affected you in everyday life?

15. Did/have you followed the route of telling your parents or teachers?

16 Have you told anyone? If so, who?

17. Did you feel supported after you had told someone what was happening to you?

18. Do you feel support in such forums as this one?

Thanks for input x

 

[TheJoShow]

Section One

Name/Domain name: N/A
Gender: Female
Age: 20

1. Please define bullying in your own words?
others attacking a person physically or mentally for some trivail reason.

2. What do you think is the most common form of bullying?
name calling

3. Do you think there is a certain type of person that would be bullied? quiet people who may seem more unsociable then others

4. Please give 3 characteristics, in your opinion, of the type of person that would get bullied
geeky
fat
quiet

5. Please give 3 characteristics, in your opinion, of the type of person that would bully another person
chav
thinks they are a popular person
a person with no future goals

6. Do you think there is a reason why people bully others, if yes what do you think they are?
jelously of another person and insecurtiy of themselves.


7. Please name the people you could confide in if you were being bullied
teachers and parents.


Section two


8. How old were you when you experienced a bullying situation?
13-14

9. Was it an on-going occurrence or a one of condition?
one of for a couple for weeks

10. Please give an example of the bullying that has happened/is happening to you
a gang waiting for me after school to beat me up.

11. Why do you think the bully had bullied/is bullying you?
becasue i did not do what they wanted, so they would feel power over me.

12. Give three words describing how you felt/feel when you were/are being bullied.
sad
scared
embarrased

13. If you could say anything to the bully, what would it be?
my life has turned out alot better then yours, im doing somthing with mine, your just a thick shit and a poor excuss for a human being.

14. How has the bullying affected you in everyday life?
im more confident in myself now.

15. Did/have you followed the route of telling your parents or teachers?
i told them both.

16 Have you told anyone? If so, who?
teachers and parents.

17. Did you feel supported after you had told someone what was happening to you?
yes the help from school was brilliant and was sorted out striaght away.

18. Do you feel support in such forums as this one? yes

 

[TheUnwantedTree]

Name/Domain name: Rather not say
Gender: Female
Age: 18

1. Please define bullying in your own words
Violence towards others either physically or emotionly

2. What do you think is the most common form of bullying?
Name calling, fighting

3. Do you think there is a certain type of person that would be bullied?
"Geeks"

4. Please give 3 characteristics, in your opinion, of the type of person that would get bullied
Quiet, unpopular, tends to sit by themselves

5. Please give 3 characteristics, in your opinion, of the type of person that would bully another person
Thinks they're popular, selfish, doesn't care about anyone other than themselves

6. Do you think there is a reason why people bully others, if yes what do you think they are?
Insecure abouth themselves

7. Please name the people you could confide in if you were being bullied
Close friends, teachers

Section two


8. How old were you when you experienced a bullying situation?
Secondary school age

9. Was it an on-going occurrence or a one of condition?
On-going occurrence

10. Please give an example of the bullying that has happened/is happening to you.
Name calling in class
"Jumped" outside of school

11. Why do you think the bully had bullied/is bullying you?
I don't really know. Maybe because i was better than them in school.

12. Give three words describing how you felt/feel when you were/are being bullied.
Worthless, disliked, targeted

13. If you could say anything to the bully, what would it be?
I don't want to see them again, so there wouldn't be an opportunity for me to say anything to them

14. How has the bullying affected you in everyday life?
I made me feel like i didn't want to live anymore and that no one like me, but then I got over it and life started to feel better

15. Did/have you followed the route of telling your parents or teachers?
I never told my parents, but when i look back at it i think that i really should have done.

16 Have you told anyone? If so, who?
A close friend

17. Did you feel supported after you had told someone what was happening to you?

18. Do you feel support in such forums as this one?
Yes i do.

 

[TheUnwantedTree]

Sorry i forget to answer question 17

17. Did you feel supported after you had told someone what was happening to you?
Yes i did, it felt like a big weight had been lifted from me and they helped me through it all and i knew that if anything ever happened again they would be there to talk to.

 

[nezul]

Name: Will
Gender: male
Age: 16

1. Please define bullying in your own words
someone exerting control over other person forcefully

2. What do you think is the most common form of bullying?
name calling, small acts of physical voilence, tripping, shoving

3. Do you think there is a certain type of person that would be bullied?
shy and unfamilary people, usually people who are not confident in themselves

4. Please give 3 characteristics, in your opinion, of the type of person that would get bullied
nervous, unsure, strange to others

5. Please give 3 characteristics, in your opinion, of the type of person that would bully another person
scared, usually bullied themselves, at home or at work

6. Do you think there is a reason why people bully others, if yes what do you think they are?
yes, bullies try to create some control over their life usually over someone else, if there are getting bullied they generally bully someone else in order to regain control.

7. Please name the people you could confide in if you were being bullied
parents, always talk about it, it makes you fell much better.

8. How old were you when you experienced a bullying situation?
grade 8

9. Was it an on-going occurrence or a one of condition?
On-going, it will usually stay on-going until you stop it

10. Please give an example of the bullying that has happened/is happening to you.
name calling, exclusion in sports, pushing, shoving, triping, rumors


11. Why do you think the bully had bullied/is bullying you?
i was strange


12. Give three words describing how you felt/feel when you were/are being bullied.
weak, helpless, infuriated

13. If you could say anything to the bully, what would it be?
sorry, im sorry, it didnt need to turn out like it did.

14. How has the bullying affected you in everyday life?
made me not want to live, made we wanna never go to school again

15. Did/have you followed the route of telling your parents or teachers?
in most situations it will do nothing and there is little to no point unless assualt occurs

16 Have you told anyone? If so, who?
parents

17. Did you feel supported after you had told someone what was happening to you?
i felt guilty and humiliated.

18. Do you feel support in such forums as this one?
i good idea but VERY dangerous if the wrong advice is given to the wrong situation.