Scared to talk to good looking people?!

xkiss_me_nowx

Well-known member
I feel everytime i talk to someone who is goodlooking or really pretty... i feel really shy/nervous/intimidated.

but yet, someone who i think isnt thattt pretty, i can talk to really easily?
because im so insecure about my looks, i think that when i talk to really pretty people theyre juding me, and think im below them etc.
but if i talk to someone whos not really that pretty im not so nervous at all.. because i feel theyre not prettier than me so it doesnt matter and theyre not gonna judge me as much and look down on me?!!

i dont know why i think like that, its shallow and dumb.
does anybody else have this problem?
 
I have difficulty talking to pretty girls, because I feel inferior and I feel as though they must be judging me. It's something I've tried very hard to overcome, but I still find it difficult. It's not naturally pretty girls that I have much trouble with though, it's girls who wear lots of make up and revealing clothes ect, I feel as though because they spend so much time on their appearance they must obviously judge others. Also, I just feel kinda plain next to them because I've never been very good at choosing what clothes or make up to wear.
 

SingaporeGuy

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there was a time when i spoke to some guy from top junior college. O man, the way he speaks, it was superb, with fantastic words and stuff, and the way i spoke, it was like heaven and hell.

Kinda felt inferior.
 

scatmantom

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i cant do it at all. I go red and lose my words. Sometimes i try to get out of it...really wish this wasnt the case. its something im gonna work on tho :wink:
 

Alkaenn

Member
sure can relate to this..whenever i feel that someone is better looking, smarter or just better than me in any way i get totally nervous and shy. and unfortunatly thats usually the case haha
 

Layla

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Im pretty sure nearly everyone feels this way to some degree. Alot of girls here say they (like me) get more nervous talking to girls because we feel they are judging us, whereas talking to a guy is generally easier. Unless they are really cute. In that case, it;s always hard to find the right words. you just end up saying something really silly or embarassing! at least I do! anyhow, im pretty sure this is a universal feeling.

What I dont get is how the dirtiest, grossest, older men have the gall to go up to cute girls and hit on them, when the cute, sweet guys don't say anything at all to you, just look at you at of the corner of the eye, but never make a move! why?! why do these 55 year olds think i would want them?! Why!? no offense to the older crowd, but its just kinda yucky.
 
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