really angry/sad moments ??

[xtina_fan81]

Im not really sure how to describe them, and i dont know if anyone will know what im talking about but ill give it a go.

I think i have a slight fear of rejection and being hurt because i have been in the past. The friends i have now are great, and im learning to trust again. But every now and then, somethin happens and i hear or see something that just makes me want to really cry and i get really angry that i just wanna scream at them or someone. the things that can happen can be the slightest things, like them leaving me out of something or not telling me that they were going out somewhere, regular things. and even though i kind of kno now that they're not doing it on purpose, i just get really angry and sad, adn these moments will only really occur if im not actually around them at the time. if i find out when im at home, thats when itll really get to me . the feelings will only last for about 10 minutes. .

I doubt this has made much sense to someone who doesnt know because its hard to explain it, but any thoughts are appreciated.

 

[Thelema]

I know what you're talking about and have experienced it before and still do. I try to atleast keep my emotions in check on the outside and not let the other person get uncomfortable even tho I'm feeling horrible inside. The whole WHY thinking starts creeping in and you feel all kinds of emotions then you bounce back within a few minutes just to have it eventually happen again.

Does it happen when it involves someone you're attracted to?

 

[xtina_fan81]

No not realy attratced to liek that, its basically anyone who I want to like me and be friends with me. So if someone i dont really talk to does something horrible or somethin, it doesnt bother me cuase im not bothered abotu what they think or havin them in my life.
So yeah its not particularly people im attracted to, just people who are important to me.

 

[dtrotter]

I was nervous and sad and upset. The first time i ever went up a stranger and try to chat him up. He shot me down with some bitter remarks, oh well, it lasted for half an hour, but at least i got to overcome my fear of failure, since this is the only worst it can get for being a social illiterate.

 

[atvsamala]

Hi,

What this saying says is true: It's the little things that count. Getting ignored, misinterpreted or left out by your friends can definitely make you feel bad. But what you can do is that you need to sit down with your friends and talk to them. Tell them exactly how you feel so, that they would be aware of what you are going through. Keep the lines of communication open so, that there would not be any misunderstanding between all of you.

Regards,
atvsamala