Readin to much into it?

Megsmi

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Sorry people this is gonna be a little long and borin! Basically theres this friend of mine and over the last couple of weeks we've been getting closer, we're both the same sex and the thought of doing anything with this friend would feel a little wrong although i do find them attractive. But we both are straight.

We went to a nightclub about two weeks ago and this friend was drunk but they told me that they wanted to get with me (kiss me)...i laughed it off because they were drunk but deep down a little bit made me smile, this friend also then texted me the same thing telling me again.

We went out again last week and this friend was being pretty touchy feely with me, whenever they wanted a hug they would pull my neck towards them instead of just asking for a hug.

Later on on the same night this friend stayed round mine we slept in the same bed even though there was another bed made up. i said i would drop them home but they wanted to stay the night. Because they got upset about something, i gave them a hug from behind and we ended up spooning, this friend then reached to hold my hand, they pushed my arm away twice so i wasnt hugging them but within five mins of doing that they were reaching out for my hand to hug them again.

I dont know if im reading too much into this, but are they giving off flirty signals? i dont have the guts to talk to them about it. i wouldn't classify myself as gay or even bi but i do find this friend attractive and if we were both drunk enough i think i would kiss them. I dont fancy any other friends of mine which are the same sex, but theres something about this friend. Dunno tho im probably reading to much into it.....

Martine x
 
Sounds flirty to me (not that I'm an expert in social stuff), but forget about the labels and do what you enjoy. If you want to kiss, go ahead and see how you like it.
 
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