Anonymous
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Hi, I thought I'd post. I'm 17 and female. Um, I'm worried that I have this social anxiety thing. Or at least -something- is wrong with me. Please please read what I write and respond with your thoughts on if anythings wrong with me.
I always think people are watching me when I'm outside, even if I can't see anyone. I'm very aware of my appearance. And when I'm in the house I close all the curtains and check them to make sure nobody can see in before I feel comfortable.
And I don't go out very much. last time was 2 weeks ago, and before that I didn't leave the house for about a month and a half. (I don't go to school or work)
I only feel comfortable and happy when I'm in my room alone.
Although I sometimes think people are filming me inside my house. (paranoia?) I feel unhappy alot and think about death often.
When I went to school I usually wouldn't actually go(I would pretend I was ill) because I felt too worried, and it took alot of 'preparing' myself mentally to go. I wouldn't be able to leave the house until lunchtime sometimes.
that was a year ago.
When I left school I decided to leave my friends at the same time, and ignore contact from them etc.
My usual behaviour with people is to stand there very awkwardly and aware of myself, and at parties I would sit in the corner. I used to get very easily offended and take everything said to me literally. I think about things I've said and done alot afterwards.
When I went out 2 weeks ago, because I have a bright hair color and stuff, I got comments and stares, and I felt really unconfident and I had a panic attack in the car for 15 minutes because I didnt want to go out again.
The next thing I think is the oddest behaviour from me, I don't like my father(no real reason) and I always stayed in my room when his girfriend was visiting. I still saw and talked to him and sat downstairs with him. Then I just ..carried on staying in my room, and now I only talk to him through the door, and I only leave my room when he isn't home or asleep. It's not that I'm scared of him or anything, I've just been doing it for so long now I can't get back into comunicating normally with him. The only person I talk to face to face is my sibling, and strangers in shops to say thank you or whatever.
My mother is a wierdo too, she is very paranoid and thinks really vague things in newpapers or on tv are about her. She literally lives in a house alone speaking to nobody(uh..like me then); I havent seen her for about 8 months. So if I DO have something wrong with me, it would be inherited from her.
I've always been really shy/low-confidence and if someone tells me its just extreme shyness I will feel alot better.
I always think people are watching me when I'm outside, even if I can't see anyone. I'm very aware of my appearance. And when I'm in the house I close all the curtains and check them to make sure nobody can see in before I feel comfortable.
And I don't go out very much. last time was 2 weeks ago, and before that I didn't leave the house for about a month and a half. (I don't go to school or work)
I only feel comfortable and happy when I'm in my room alone.
Although I sometimes think people are filming me inside my house. (paranoia?) I feel unhappy alot and think about death often.
When I went to school I usually wouldn't actually go(I would pretend I was ill) because I felt too worried, and it took alot of 'preparing' myself mentally to go. I wouldn't be able to leave the house until lunchtime sometimes.
that was a year ago.
When I left school I decided to leave my friends at the same time, and ignore contact from them etc.
My usual behaviour with people is to stand there very awkwardly and aware of myself, and at parties I would sit in the corner. I used to get very easily offended and take everything said to me literally. I think about things I've said and done alot afterwards.
When I went out 2 weeks ago, because I have a bright hair color and stuff, I got comments and stares, and I felt really unconfident and I had a panic attack in the car for 15 minutes because I didnt want to go out again.
The next thing I think is the oddest behaviour from me, I don't like my father(no real reason) and I always stayed in my room when his girfriend was visiting. I still saw and talked to him and sat downstairs with him. Then I just ..carried on staying in my room, and now I only talk to him through the door, and I only leave my room when he isn't home or asleep. It's not that I'm scared of him or anything, I've just been doing it for so long now I can't get back into comunicating normally with him. The only person I talk to face to face is my sibling, and strangers in shops to say thank you or whatever.
My mother is a wierdo too, she is very paranoid and thinks really vague things in newpapers or on tv are about her. She literally lives in a house alone speaking to nobody(uh..like me then); I havent seen her for about 8 months. So if I DO have something wrong with me, it would be inherited from her.
I've always been really shy/low-confidence and if someone tells me its just extreme shyness I will feel alot better.