Hey there!
I actually planned to start a thread about this subject today. There seems to be an invasion of people in here telling SA-sufferers to stop complaining and just start to think positive. And believe me, I'm not saying it is not important and necessary to remind people to think positive, and I have no problem imagining it might have tremendous effect on peoples anxiety. But for those who are severely affected with heavy physical symptoms and to tell them it is just a matter of thinking positive...I mean it is upsetting me, because I have had this disorder for many years and I have tried just about anything, but still someof my my physical symptoms remain. I mean telling a severely affected SA-sufferer to stop complaining and that it is just a matter of positive thinking is like telling a chronic cols-pasient to stop coughing....
I also suffer from fatigue, headaches etc, probably as a result from years of stress, anxiety and depression. The only thing that has helped me so far is to get an apropriate amount of sleep every single day and if you have trouble sleeping you might need sleeping pills (there are efficiant herbal ones too). My experience is that days where I sleep less and have fatigue, are the days where my anxiety are most noticable. Healthy principles regarding food, moderate excercise, limit stress where it is possible, fresh air etc are also vital.
Days where I feel rested and healthy, I feel so much more in control of myself and my anxiety.
And for the record; I am not encouraging people to complain either as complaining won't solve a thing. But sometimes it is necessary to empty yourself with personal problems you are struggeling with. I'm not talking about wining, but a sharing of personal struggles with an aim to get some good advices or simply just because it feels good to share your problems with people you know will understand...