one comment which has affected your confidence

mrb

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"Why are you so ugly??"

you do my nut in psy ...... meaning your not ugly ;) ok start a thread on here saying who fancies psy ..... see how many blokes say yep i do ..... quite a few i bet .... go on do it start that thread ;) bet theres loads :)
 

mrb

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hmmm my dad saying lots of times , bloody brats if we ever split up i dont want them . to my mother ........ i could go on but whats the point , all past tence now
 

DarkSeeker

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Nothing in particular, I've always been exposed to a constant streams of insults of all sorts by almost everyone around me. I muffled it with ear plugs, and by ear plugs I mean by dissociating from reality.

Now that I am miles away from all the negativity, it's hard to believe that it was I who went through all the crap. I also find it disturbing that I find it disturbing that I haven't been insulted by anyone in over one year. My brain must have gotten used to me being treated like less than shit, I'm in need of some serious rewiring.
 

BlaiseBLATES

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I've just been able to get back into my mainstream lessons and on my first English lesson in well over a year I walk in a little late to avoid the crowds and some girl says
'Oh fxcking hell, she annoys me so much when she does that, thought she didn't come to English'
Complete and utter ignorance of people.

Also on my school report last year (I was in and out for the first term) many of my teachers said I need to improve my attendance and contribute more to lessons....Bitches.

And also that I've put on a lot of weight...But that's the least of my worries.
 
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Jessquietgirl

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Throughout my existence I have gotten more negative comments than positive comments particularly because of my appearance and weight.

Negative:

CHILDHOOD
(A boy during the first day of school in Kindergarten)
"You're fat!"

(The same boy)
"Hi fat girl!"

(One of the 2nd Graders in Lunchroom while I ate my lunch)
"Look at that girl! She is so fat! Cowgirl! Cowgirl! Cowgirl!"

(Some immature pipsqueak who claimed I stole and ate his pizza)
"You ate my pizza! You ate it you fat girl!"

(On purpose, I threw food at some girl who made fun of me. An adult reprimanded me by yelling)
"Jessica if you don't behave at this minute you will not be invited to the class party!!!!"

(My naive Kindergarten teacher talking to my parents about my troubles)
"I just don't understand why she is so sensitive. She always cries when the students say something to her."

(In gym class. We (girls) had to do some sort of dance. The kindergarten boys responded to my dancing)
"EWWWWWWW!!! BOOOOOOOOOOOOO!'
 

mozart87

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"look, he looks just like a girl, with that thin leg and curly hair" some stupid younger girls when I was walking in a park.

I've read some of the things written here. so sad to see how mean can be some stupid human beings around us, or which we happen to meet. I am wishing you all to have to power to keep your head high and overcome the shame felt in these situations
 
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mrb

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My step father..

jesus ... im a step father to one of my kids shes 15 now , id never say anything like that to her ... some people really just dont care what they say to people do they .... you dont want to know what id have said back to him brokenx its not printable on here ...iv been reading a few of these posts on here and hmmmmm nasty comments you have all had to put up with ......dont let em grind you down people :)
 
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jesus ... im a step father to one of my kids shes 15 now , id never say anything like that to her ... some people really just dont care what they say to people do they .... you dont want to know what id have said back to him brokenx its not printable on here ...iv been reading a few of these posts on here and hmmmmm nasty comments you have all had to put up with ......dont let em grind you down people :)


Yeah i hate him, he hates me.
He makes my life a living hell.::(:
 
''look at her, she's so ugly!''

Yes that hurts so much. I had many comments along those lines. Two that really destroyed me were 'You're ugly as f***' and 'Urgh, you're ugly' (in a tone of voice like you'd trodden in some dog turd.

It is interesting how a negative comment or comments have had such a huge impact on all of us and that we cannot let go or get over the negative comment. I wish I could just wipe the slate clean and that I had never received these negative judgements.
 

mrb

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blimey all these posts such nasty things people say to each other jesus ... for my own part iv had god knows how many horrible things said to me over the years , i cant even remember half of them , but last night my gf rang from ireland saying whooo 11 months left b4 you move over here , new job new people new life ::(: sad face but it should be happy .... yea im paranoid about it , but iv taken the attitude i wont let sa rule my life ... ill be ok .......... or will i :eek:
 
I've also gotten a lot of comments from random people I walk by. Once it was a group of guys barking at me. One time I was walking down the street, a really pretty girl walking in front of me. Some guys walk by her and say "Hey there pretty girl, don't I know you?' Next they walk by me and the one says "I definetly don't know you" with a repulsed look on his face then they start cracking up. Dicks
 

AimeeSP

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"You're too fat to be a ballerina." - From my father, i was 6. Ah well, i'd rather be in a rock/indie/ska or acoustic band now. ::p:
 

Bullied Anonymous

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Once I got literally spit on and cried in front of my whole class. :)

The same s*** happened to me in before. I got so pissed.

We should ALL collaborate a book! Make it sort of dark humor with some bad childlike drawings and name it something like "Heartwarming quotes for every day in year" lolol. It could be very therapeutic and definitely artsy. :)

Hell yea, I second that notion.lol
 

leafy

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My sister:
"Everyone thinks your really nice person but if they really got to know you they'd see what a horrible person you are"


We should ALL collaborate a book! Make it sort of dark humor with some bad childlike drawings and name it something like "Heartwarming quotes for every day in year" lolol. It could be very therapeutic and definitely artsy. :)

I think that's cool idea ::p: It could even make some people think twice about what they say to others..
 
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