often guilty

[Mindless_roamer]

I do it almost anyone I face, especially when I am in those particular moment when the other gives the impression I am the inferior. I do not know how it relates to being guilty, but I think it's some way similar the way it is expressed as physical violation, etc. They weren't able to cope certain emotional outbursts, and there weren't any other way around, so...

Before I got out of social phobia, I was the silent and introvert; after I was able to cope and not run away from certain situation, I had to express, and it went aggressive.

 

[IceLad]

This doesn't make much sense, but I often start to feel guilty when I'm in a good mood (as if that's something to feel guilty for!!!).

 

[Mary]

I have a strong feeling my father was abusive to us because he has SP. I think he never dealt w/it and it made him lash out and take it out on us. I think he had built up rage because of it. I know not everyone w/Sp is abusive and I won't be to my children but I think it contributed in my dad's case.

 

[Reholla]

Guilt is another emotion that can take away from happiness. With all my anxiety, guilt is a common emotion i feel and often for no reason. I feel guilty about the stupidest things. And sometimes obsess about things from the past that i have no control over. Simply knowing this though doesnt necessarily mean I can control it or make it go away.

A guilty past, can cause a meaningless present, and further cause a hopeless future.

^^ (* i learned that from a sermon my preacher did a couple sundays ago....SEE, going to church can pay off!)

But its no way to live....Guilt is an underlying problem and if you can eliminate that, you will be so much happier in all the other areas of your life.

 

[Reholla]

Sorry I guess I misinterprutted (sp?) what you meant....so youre saying that YOU are the person that makes others feel guilty because of your SA???