my dreams?(probably gonna write here in poetry form)

[siriusblack]

but not RHYMING poetry form

anyway

though i'm a virgin,
my biggest wish,
isn't to have sex,
it's to have someone...

someone whom i feel comfortable touching,
and who *i* know feels comfortable,
touching me too,
not necessarily meaning sexually...

solely meaning, having an arm around each others shoulder,
laying silently in the grass,
and being happy there,
together...

that is my dream,
the dream where i feel i would have overcome,
my own social phobia....

i've told people before,
but they just freaked out,
apparently it's weird,
to want these things...

things like company,
like love and touch,
to want these things,
before having sex...

 

[sadeyedgirl]

its not weird... i feel the same.

in this world, people just get physical too quickly instead of first getting to know the person.

i believe that physical intimacy too early in a relationship can lead to infatuation and the believe that you're in love. At the end you realize you're not meant to be but then you've already given yourself to this person.

i am actually abstaining until i get married, becasue I believe real love is saving yourself for the one whom you really love and are commited to. If he REALLY loves you, he will wait. If not he's not worth it. Girls we need to respect ourselves more instead of giving in to the pressure.