Moments that make you want to crawl in a hole

Aic

Aic

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I just had another one of those moments... And I feel so sick and violated and I'm just twitching all over because of it. I HATE IT!

Any way I'd like to share my experience with you because I won't be able to keep my mind off it until I atleast tell some one. Ok this is what happened. My friend sent me an email, a quiz like thing "just for fun" that required you to put some personal information on it. Well it was a fake and it sent all my info to his email. I am sooo embarrassed at what I wrote down. Now he knows my little secrets ( it was about my sexual experience)! :oops:
Ew I can't stand it ! I feel so disguisting. I just want to crawl into a hole and die...

I know it was probably my fault for being so trusting and stupid, but now I really regret it.

The worst part is I don't know how to handle it. I go to school and have a class with him. How am I going to face him?

I have no self confidence to stand up for myself, so I will be a deer in the head lights...
My skin is tingling. I want to rip it off and cry.

Sorry I'm throwing this all on you, but I feel so diseased and alone. I don't know what to do.
 
sensitive

sensitive

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hello Aic. first of all we are glad you felt you can tell us about this experience, we really appreciate your trust.

well, apparently it is his/her fault. now you know he/she isn't the kind you can trust. i don't know if you can talk to him/her to discuss about it or not. that is one of the options (or not :? )

you may feel alone (don't we all feel like that :p ) but you are definitely not alone here :) . tell us what you are thinking to do (or you just don't know) and let's see what other members will say.
 
crazyfairyx

crazyfairyx

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Yeah I agree with Thoughtless, just claim you were feeling bored and imaginative and you made it all up. To be honest he doesn't sound like much of a friend if he tricks you like that.
Try not to worry too much, everyone experiences horrible things like that sometimes, and in the long run it makes you stronger. You are not diseased or alone, everyone makes the mistake of trusting the wrong person at some time or another.

Naomi x
 
black_mamba

black_mamba

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Aic said:
My friend sent me an email, a quiz like thing "just for fun" that required you to put some personal information on it. Well it was a fake and it sent all my info to his email. I am sooo embarrassed at what I wrote down. Now he knows my little secrets ( it was about my sexual experience)! :oops:

The worst part is I don't know how to handle it. I go to school and have a class with him. How am I going to face him?
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You really have a talent for describing anxiety! I know exactly how you feel even though the last time I felt this way was long ago.

You didn't really explain (although I don't expect you to) what it is you are embarrassed of: encounters you have or have not had yet.

I think there are two ways you can deal with this; deny everything and lie your arse off by pretending you were joking around too or, simply say to your friend: who cares?

It may even be worth letting this friend know how the email made you feel like you did in the above post to us, and if they're as trustworthy as true friends shoudl be he/she will understand and let it go.

Good luck!
 
cody2468

cody2468

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If it was a joke then I would then turn around and tell him you thought it was a fake email so you made up all the answers. None of what you sent off was true.

I hate it when things like that happen. I have said things and later regretted what I said and used to cringe when I run into that person again. I wouldn't worry too much about it until you see him again. It's true but we do spend alot of time worrying about things that will never happen
 
paul

paul

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One of my friends has actually had a very similar thing happen to them! I did that site too but luckily for me I have not much to hide :roll: but my friend took it and there was some stuff there, apparently (although I did not see it).

What I would do in your situation is say you've seen that site before and answered fake just for fun. Haha I can't exactly say lying is the best thing to do, but it sure does work a lot.
 
Bexi

Bexi

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Your "friend" sounds like some kinky perve! Think about it, who's really the loser here- You- answering what you thought was a legitimate Questionnaire, or your mate, who took the time to bother to find out your sex secrets??? hmmmm xx
 
Bexi

Bexi

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Your "friend" sounds like some kinky perve! Think about it, who's really the loser here- You- answering what you thought was a legitimate Questionnaire, or your mate, who took the time to bother to find out your sex secrets??? hmmmm xx
 
why_do_I_try

why_do_I_try

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i had one of these sent to me, i could tell it was a fake so i filled in each box with something like do. you. think. this. would. fool. me. thought i was very clever untill the next day when i filled in another (seemed more believable) lol it had like regular questionaire questions with a few very personel ones scattered about. i was lucky as i left the name and put an alternate email address and pretented i sent it to a friend to do and didnt do it. i doubt she believed me

anyway it happens to us all try not to worry about it.
 
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