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Juggernaut

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Can you guys imagine being married with children? I can’t see why a woman would want to share my shitty life. And then there are kids. I can’t be in charge of another human beings life. I would just screw them up. I can barely take care of myself. I don’t know. Can anyone relate?
 

GeekGirl

New member
I am married, but will never have kids (don't like them), and I'm married to someone who also doesn't want kids. He knows about my social anxiety and will help me out with situations I just can't deal with (like making phone calls).
 

Ahmed

Well-known member
yes, i know what u mean, i think of that alot... You can't even get yourself together, how can u bring up your kids.. When i get married, that is if i get married, i will tell my wife, who is supposingly to be a non-SA holder, to bring up the children and i will watch :lol:
 

Zipper

Well-known member
Yeah, I'm not sure how smart it is to have kids if you have severe emotional disorders. No doubt your kids will turn out worse!

My mother has had an anxiety disorder as long as I've known her, and some of my problems are a direct result of her disfunctions.

But for me, the mist is clearing, the clouds are lifting, and each day I am a more and more authentic person who can deal with problems and resolve them as they arise.

One day I WILL be ready for little babies, which I am happy about, because I love kids, as you can see from my avatar.
 

cLavain

Well-known member
Quixote said:
Juggernaut said:
Can you guys imagine being married with children?

No, but I can imagine being divorced and the kids living with my ex-partner
:mrgreen:

I can't really imagine it either, but I don't want any kids anyway.

Heh, I was thinking Al Bundy when I read the topic title!
 

scatmantom

Well-known member
Juggernaut said:
Can you guys imagine being married with children? I can’t see why a woman would want to share my shitty life. And then there are kids. I can’t be in charge of another human beings life. I would just screw them up. I can barely take care of myself. I don’t know. Can anyone relate?

have you been reading my mind, get out of my thoughts :lol: :lol:

this is what i think about sometimes, and like you said, if you cant look after yourself, how can u manage looking after other people. I dont think it would be fair for me to get into a relationship, let alone hav kids
 

Septor

Well-known member
Yea I would like to have kids but thats take 2 people so I don't have to worry about that one. :lol: :lol:
 
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