Letting go of delusion

[SeniorRedrings]

I need help with letting go of a delusion that has led me to believe something meaningful can come from nothing.

I can't really give any details without frightening you all but please,I desperately need to learn a way to recognise the worth of nothing.

 

[coyote]

eight spokes make a wheel - but it is the hole in the center that makes it useful

hardened clay forms a pot, but it is the hollow space inside that gives it use

solid walls surrounding emptiness form a house - doors and windows allow access

the universe is constructed of endless matter - but it is the space between the molecules which give shape and definition to everything in infinity

nothing is what gives meaning to everything

 

[SeniorRedrings]

Ah ****,I didn't explain that very well.lol.

I need to learn there is no worth in nothing...now these examples make that all the more difficult.

 

[coyote]

sorry, i know nothing

 

[BlueDays]

Can't you explain what you are talking about with a little more detail?
I agree with what coyote said, sometimes the nothing part of something can be very important.

 

[SeniorRedrings]

Well this nothing is nothing....I found someone to be very attractive on the internet and because it had been so long seeing a beautiful human,well this beautiful human stirred old remembered feelings inside of me.
I had forgotten about attraction,but this was 100% full tilt a one-way experience.
I need to recognise this attraction as being nothing.

 

[coyote]

Well this nothing is nothing....I found someone to be very attractive on the internet and because it had been so long seeing a beautiful human,well this beautiful human stirred old remembered feelings inside of me.
I had forgotten about attraction,but this was 100% full tilt a one-way experience.
I need to recognise this attraction as being nothing.

if i may ask, why can't you pursue those feelings

and make something out of nothing?

 

[SeniorRedrings]

For many reasons.The main one being I am a wreck with no future or motivation.

I had to set my expectations more in line with my reality and focus more on the mad cat ladies and screaming drunk hags with disgusting sweaty multi-bellies.

 

[coyote]

i have often found that the right woman can motivate me like nothing else can

perhaps the multi-bellied cat hags are holding you back

dare to dream

 

[BlueDays]

Well this nothing is nothing....I found someone to be very attractive on the internet and because it had been so long seeing a beautiful human,well this beautiful human stirred old remembered feelings inside of me.
I had forgotten about attraction,but this was 100% full tilt a one-way experience.
I need to recognise this attraction as being nothing.

Omg! I've been in that exact same situation!
It hurts so bad doesn't it!?::
Sorry I can't give you any advice :s