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[Anonymous]

hi,
i was at a company and there was a training class. everyone was so close together as a team and i felt kind of left out in there. even the instrcutor was like that.
why did they act this way?

 

[scott]

because you excluded yourself, dont expect them to hold your hand at a training session. the better question is, why did you keep yourself out of the circle? becuase you felt they didnt like you?

 

[eka82]

Scott has a point there Guest. Most times people can't read out minds, they can misinterpret our silence in a million ways.

No point in whining and feeling sorry for ourselves either. No matter how difficult that first step is, try to reach out to them, show that you're interested in what's going on and actually want to contribute. Take it nice and easy. You can do it. :wink:

 

[Anonymous]

too late..

well, i couldnt handle it anymore,,,maybe i was fearful of them, but that wasnt the reason i quit. i had to look for better opportunties. there were some nice ppl on the team...maybe i suffer from social phobia...they were maybe jealous of me..even supervisor had an attitude towards me

 

[deadzone]

OTHERS

GUEST,
IT WAS PROBABLY CAUSE YOU HAVE hh AND DONT REALIZE JUST HOW BAD YET.