carebear
Well-known member
interesting...
i just got done reading an article about shyness. It says that the more shy people are isolated, the worse it gets. You should, if your are shy, go out as much as possible..anywhere and everywhere. Shy people lack experience communicating(they don't know how to act in social situations). MOst shy people think that by just GOING OUT to be with people, they are helping get rid of their shyness but in fact it does nothing. If you want to get rid of shyness you have to actually actively approach other people. They say shy people trying to overcome shyness should not wait for others to approach them. In fact, that is one of their biggest mistakes which is why they sometimes fail in curing their own shyness.
That was actually not the interesting part. The most interesting part was when they said that the isolation that shy people go through...the army uses those same tactics of isolation to get people accustomed to killing other people. It looks like isolation is the most dangerous thing about being shy.
I was shocked when I read this, not because I have never thought of this, but becauase the training actually works! I don't know about anyone else, but reading something like that has the power to change my life!
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http://www.lonelyclubber.com
for shy clubbers looking to experience nightlife
i just got done reading an article about shyness. It says that the more shy people are isolated, the worse it gets. You should, if your are shy, go out as much as possible..anywhere and everywhere. Shy people lack experience communicating(they don't know how to act in social situations). MOst shy people think that by just GOING OUT to be with people, they are helping get rid of their shyness but in fact it does nothing. If you want to get rid of shyness you have to actually actively approach other people. They say shy people trying to overcome shyness should not wait for others to approach them. In fact, that is one of their biggest mistakes which is why they sometimes fail in curing their own shyness.
That was actually not the interesting part. The most interesting part was when they said that the isolation that shy people go through...the army uses those same tactics of isolation to get people accustomed to killing other people. It looks like isolation is the most dangerous thing about being shy.
I was shocked when I read this, not because I have never thought of this, but becauase the training actually works! I don't know about anyone else, but reading something like that has the power to change my life!
______________
http://www.lonelyclubber.com
for shy clubbers looking to experience nightlife