I'm mean

[Emma]

I've done something bad, I decided to go back to this stupid dating site, in an attempt to move on with my life, and because I'm lonely, and this person emailed me, and I decided i don't want to date him, or anyone else for that matter, but he keeps talking to me....and I don't know how to tell him that I love someone else and I don't want to talk to him and that I made a mistake.

I don't think I want to be with anyone else, and I'm not ready to move on, and I don't think I will ever love another person the way I love this other guy, so now I feel like a mean bitch who played a stupid game, I don't know why I even joined again anyway, I think I honestly want to sit here and pine away for someone who I'm not likely to see again for a long time.

 

[Shonen_Yo]

This isn't the same person who verbally abused you, is it?

 

[COALPORTER]

How does he keep talking to you?
Do you mean be email only?
Can't you just block his email address?

 

[mienaino]

I think I honestly want to sit here and pine away for someone who I'm not likely to see again for a long time.

I speak from about a decade of experience when I say, that does not work.
That is called unrequited love, or maybe you're limerent. I've been both and I would prefer to shoot myself something awful. Seppuku sounds like a walk in the park in comparison. I would suggest, if you're not ready to move on, then get a dog, or a cat, or a hyperactive rodent of some sort, but don't waste your time and love-energy (yes, I'm going to start a new branch of physics) on someone who is incidental to your life.
I'm beginning to become limerent for the second time by the way, and I'm also on the market for a handgun, cyanide capsules, Cyclon B, or syringes and some hydrogen peroxide (since the vein in my wrist apparently isn't there). I say this only to give you a preview of coming attractions. And yes, it is true.

 

[Shonen_Yo]

I think I honestly want to sit here and pine away for someone who I'm not likely to see again for a long time.

I speak from about a decade of experience when I say, that does not work.
That is called unrequited love, or maybe you're limerent. I've been both and I would prefer to shoot myself something awful. Seppuku sounds like a walk in the park in comparison. I would suggest, if you're not ready to move on, then get a dog, or a cat, or a hyperactive rodent of some sort, but don't waste your time and love-energy (yes, I'm going to start a new branch of physics) on someone who is incidental to your life.
I'm beginning to become limerent for the second time by the way, and I'm also on the market for a handgun, cyanide capsules, Cyclon B, or syringes and some hydrogen peroxide (since the vein in my wrist apparently isn't there). I say this only to give you a preview of coming attractions. And yes, it is true.

Preach it, bro !:lol: Can I become a love theorist?

 

[Moonie]

I really don't know what happened with your ended relationship, but I do feel it's not healthy to long for someone if he does not feel the same way back. Maybe you are just not ready to date yet? Give yourself some time to enjoy YOU. Try different things, meet new people, don't feel like you have to jump right back into love. Don't beat yourself up too much over this guy you have been messaging on the internet. If you want to continue talking with him as only a friend, be honest about that. Tell him that you think you might have jumped back into dating too soon. If he doesn't accept that, than he will either stop talking to you or try to convince you otherwise. If the situation feels weird, put him on ignore.