"I LOVE YOU"

Scottish_Player

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I was sitting last night (early morning) watching the tv and then somthing just came into my head for no reason at all, it just hit me that i have never said those three words out loud to any one in my entire life as far back as i can remember "I Love You" it made me sad a little that i have never had anyone in my life that i have felt that way about :( , so thats my mission in life now too find someone that i can say those little words too and mean it :wink:

I have said them over and over in my head a million times before but never out loud to anyone, so i said it out loud while sitting there myself just to see what it sounded like and i kinda had to force it out it just didnt feel right for some reason, awe well its just a random thing i thought i would mention :p
 

redlady

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Romantic wise you have never? - you have to your family though? - but that's even hard to do, it was easier when i was little. You're right about being hard to get out, three little words but with so much meaning - and they make you vunerable, which is hard to be. I hope you find that someone you can be your most vunerable with and utter those three little meaningful words to.
 

Scottish_Player

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redlady said:
you have to your family though?

I have never said it too my family either, as much as i would love to say it as it do feel it, i would find it hard to say and would probably get a strange look :roll:
 

gSteve

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I don't think i've ever said it not even to my family, i'd probably get a strange look as well if I said it to my family
 

nerdgirl178

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gSteve said:
I don't think i've ever said it not even to my family, i'd probably get a strange look as well if I said it to my family

That's funny. I always tell my mom I love her, I tell my dog I love her, I tell Jesus I love him :) But I know what you mean I never told a guy I love him. I can't wait to tell a guy I love him even if he looks at me like I am wierd...I own that feeling and its great.
 

redlady

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Taws that actually sounds like a lot of fun. When i finally get drunk again and have a liquored up sense of confidence i might give it a go. :lol:

And Scottish_Player, Really, not even when you were little and it was 'safe' to say it. Well in that case i hope you find that person to say it to sooner rather than later. :D
 

blubs

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Scottish_Player said:
redlady said:
you have to your family though?

I have never said it too my family either, as much as i would love to say it as it do feel it, i would find it hard to say and would probably get a strange look :roll:

I think the whole dynamics of my family would disintegrate if anyone said 'I love you' 8O
theres a bond between us all, but its based mainly on arguing yelling and piss taking

It is good being able to say it out loud to someone
x
 

redlady

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My mum and dad are pretty free with it - but i find it difficult to say - why? Don't know - even when i know there is no possible chance of rejection because they have just said it to me. I find that i can say it more easily over the phone though. How does it feel? - Weird and nice at the same time - even if the words aren't spoken you know that your family loves you sure - but it's nice to hear it sometimes - in a way it is reassuring - i should keep that in mind when they say it to me, they may need that reassurance as well.
 

PerseverareJasmine

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I've only told members of my family that I love them. However, we don't say it to each other very often. I wish that weren't the case. Outside of my family, I tend to find it hard to imagine someone telling me that they love me someday.
 
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