I feel pressured

[PrincessKitty]

I met this group of friends through the internet and I have known them for about 3 years now, I skype with all of them.
Also through my internet friends, I have never met them. They have met each other but not me yet. I only skyped with them.

So I might this girl Britney through my internet friend and she is younger than me, I'm 22 and shes 20. She lives in Sweden while I live in England (I have known her for about 2 years now.)

When I met Britney I was straight but after a year later I'm now bisexual. When I came out I told a few people and I told one of my friends that I liked Britney. One of them who I told was Britney's best fried Olly and he told me to follow my heart, but I was unsure. After a few hours later he persuaded me to tell her. When I told her through Skype she already knew.
Then I told a few of my friends (who are also with friends with Britney) and they were pleased.

After a couple of weeks later, all her friends new and they were telling me "it will work"
"you two will make such a cute couple"
"I can't wait to double date with you two"
All her friends are saying this to me.. plus we are not even dating yet!


After a while I got put off, because I felt to pressured by everyone saying like "you should go out together"

However, shes coming over for the first time to meet me but I'm unsure.

I don't know what to do??

 

[Lilly789]

my advice would be - say hi. Hang out, have a coffee, talk about silly stuff, go see a movie.

What exactly are you feeling pressured to do? meet up, have sex and become an item in the first meeting? That's probably a small over reaction

If you don't want to meet, call her and tell her you are feeling uncomfortable due to the friends pushing it, and want to slow it down a little. Meet another time. There's nothing wrong with that, that's what an adult would do with ANY friend. She's probably nervous too.