I dont know how to share feelings with anybody

[rado31]

Root of this could be, that noone ever did that for me? Noone of family didnt give me good words(Sincerely) for being one of the best students, at the time when i graduate with high marks, got magisterium , etcetera.

Is it better that they dont give you nice words, instead of giving you fake one? People fake always, they are so good in faking that they fake themselves and ruined nature.

Anyway , this lack of empathy i see as a great ruining of my identity.
Why? Because i cant help people here either, only i can relate to yours physical suffering but that doesnt mean anything. I m so wrecked that i cannot listen. And i want something to add, to me you here are all normal people, your state is a intensified reaction to the world that is far than normal .

 

[joshueg]

Hi, Rado!, i have read your message and can tell you that the best thing we can do for ourselves is to accept ourselves, even if other people, close or far from us, do appreciate us or not. You have got your certificate and that is great!, you don' t really need their support, it has been YOUR success!.
In the world, there are people who will listen to your problems and will try to help you, will congratulate you when you succeed in something and there are many people who just don' t care about us.
Sooner or later the good people will appear in your life.
In this forum, for instance, there are many people who understand you.
Nowhere better than this site to meet people who can understand you.
Have luck

 

[rado31]

Yes, tottaly agree with you . People on this site are amongst the best people in the world, sorry i was just feeling useless and needed to write it here .

 

[joshueg]

You don' t have to be sorry, you also have the right to express your emotions, positive or negative. Both are permitted :wink: