no1
Banned
Does anyone feel this way? I mean.. if it is possible that everything that has ever happened to you, or that has ever happened in your life is completely and totally YOUR FAULT and YOUR FAULT ONLY(!)
Does anyone else feel like if this is true, then maybe you are kind of powerless to stop yourself, from creating never ending torturous life circumstances that are a result of your "negativity" and "stupidity"?
Maybe you think you are mentally incapable, or physically incapable of getting out of whatever problem you may have come across?
It does seem that there is some sort of new age trend going on.. that blames everything that happens on the victim, and just plain denying that there is even any victim at all... and demonizing anyone who has problems because it is simply: Your thoughts, which created every single "problem", mishap, etc. you have.
I find this completely wrong, or naive. I understand the positive thinking trend of thought but, when this gets abused, or people who are hypocrites start to demonize others simply for having issues to deal with?
And of course everyday that goes by the more pathetic I am, because I have "problems". I think THEY are the ones being negative, judging me simply because I have THINGS to deal with. Maybe I don't even consider it that much of a "problem".
No but I'm masochist, and I like having problems. I torture myself because I am just attracted to it.
If this is possible then I guess the universe is also wrong for just letting anything and everything happen under the sun even if it is just plain wrong, and also misinterpretting my every thought.
Does anyone else feel like if this is true, then maybe you are kind of powerless to stop yourself, from creating never ending torturous life circumstances that are a result of your "negativity" and "stupidity"?
Maybe you think you are mentally incapable, or physically incapable of getting out of whatever problem you may have come across?
It does seem that there is some sort of new age trend going on.. that blames everything that happens on the victim, and just plain denying that there is even any victim at all... and demonizing anyone who has problems because it is simply: Your thoughts, which created every single "problem", mishap, etc. you have.
I find this completely wrong, or naive. I understand the positive thinking trend of thought but, when this gets abused, or people who are hypocrites start to demonize others simply for having issues to deal with?
And of course everyday that goes by the more pathetic I am, because I have "problems". I think THEY are the ones being negative, judging me simply because I have THINGS to deal with. Maybe I don't even consider it that much of a "problem".
No but I'm masochist, and I like having problems. I torture myself because I am just attracted to it.
If this is possible then I guess the universe is also wrong for just letting anything and everything happen under the sun even if it is just plain wrong, and also misinterpretting my every thought.